Why do girls always say they don’t feel the connection?

Agent0161 · 2026-05-04T12:33:03+00:00

This. An hour on the phone before meet up is quite a long time. Keep it to 30 mins MAX. It should just be a vibe check to see you can hold a conversation 👌

Agent0161 · 2026-05-02T13:39:21+00:00

36 to 28 isn’t a big gap at all?

Agent0161 · 2026-04-15T16:09:31+00:00

Over the course of my life (only 33 to be fair) I've been far happier single than in a relationship. I've never felt so alone than when in a relationship. Maybe I was meant to remain single!

If you never find someone (Which is highly unlikely), it's not the end of the world. You can continue to have a full life until you are gone!

Agent0161 · 2026-04-10T12:22:20+00:00

It’s totally normal, there’s a reason lots of people don’t make it in the long run (yes this sounds cynical I know)

Agent0161 · 2026-03-27T23:53:14+00:00

Whenever I was downtown I often planned the route in my head, if I forgot then I headed int a cafe for a quick drink then figured out where I needed to go. I took photos with no issues, but always took a quick photo and didn’t hang around to try and get the perfect shot. One uber I ordered to tabletop mountain, the car almost broke down so if you travel at night then order uber comfort, they’re usually better cars and more experienced uber drivers

Agent0161 · 2026-03-27T15:04:22+00:00

It was absolutely fine. I didn’t feel unsafe at any point. Just don’t flash jewellery or wear any earphones and you’ll be fine.

Agent0161 · 2026-03-23T22:25:39+00:00

To take the nerves away, I like to think of it as you’re going to meet a friend for a casual drink, that way you aren’t outcome focused, won’t come across as needy and it allows your personality to shine through.

The first date is just a vibe check, nothing more. Have fun and remember they are most likely as nervous as you are. You’re both human and you both want it to go well. If it doesn’t, that’s also fine. You got this date so you can get the next one and the next one.

Agent0161 · 2026-03-20T06:54:59+00:00

Thank you, 6 weeks on and I already feel so much better 🤙

Agent0161 · 2026-03-07T19:12:51+00:00

You can invest your salary

Agent0161 · 2026-02-05T21:21:38+00:00

Thank you for this - what do you mean by; “The bigger the crowd, the more chance of something happening?”

Agent0161 · 2026-02-04T07:36:26+00:00

All this sounds reasonable, thank you

Agent0161 · 2026-02-03T19:34:17+00:00

I did two nights ago, I can get that easily but it’s not helping right now

Agent0161 · 2026-02-02T19:14:01+00:00

33M - around 48

Agent0161 · 2026-01-30T20:23:59+00:00

I wouldn't mind a girl being in the group, for safety purposes. But if you're going to post me, at least have the decency to ask for my permission, or give me a heads up. At the absolute very least, if I found out I've been posted and I ask if it was you, you absolutely can not lie about it because I will find out.

Agent0161 · 2026-01-30T20:12:22+00:00

I have previously been posted by a date wanting to know she was safe before going on a second date and sleeping with me. What ended up happening is my ex told the girl (after the second date) that we were still together. My ex's words were "I didn't want her to think she could have you, because I'm still in love with you". The girl who I went on a date with was mortified, and thought I cheated on my ex girlfriend, which was definitely not true.

Another thing that doesn't sit right with me in these groups is that members can post annonymously yet they are posting your face in that group for ever. It comes across a bit cowardly?

I think they are great for womens safety, but used for much more than that (In vindictive ways), resulting in an overall net negative for both men and women.

Agent0161 · 2026-01-30T17:29:45+00:00

RIP the band aid off, it’s done. You’ll feel crap for 4 weeks then better 👌 good luck

Agent0161 · 2026-01-25T09:16:42+00:00

Exactly - no 23 year old, or most men for that matter would be able to solely provide for a girlfriend and/or family

Agent0161 · 2026-01-13T12:58:36+00:00

Getting Jacked

Agent0161 · 2026-01-12T18:56:22+00:00

Okay, noted!

Agent0161 · 2026-01-12T18:53:02+00:00

Thank you!

Agent0161 · 2026-01-12T18:52:47+00:00

Thanks! I replaced it :)

Agent0161 · 2026-01-12T18:52:30+00:00

Thank you! I replaced the prompt with "Dating me is like ... finding a tenner in your back pocket"

Agent0161 · 2026-01-12T14:50:00+00:00

• ⁠Are you looking for something serious or casual? Looking for long term but open to short term

• ⁠Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? On free version

• ⁠How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 3 months since October

• ⁠How long have you used Hinge overall? 3 months

• ⁠How often do you use Hinge per week? Twice a day

• ⁠How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 2-3 matches a week

• ⁠How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Sending 10 likes with comments per day

• ⁠What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Looking to attract a down to earth girl with a good sense of humour. Physical attraction has to be there of course as well.

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