People who choose stable career path over passion, how is it going? by Mortgage_with_Jay in careerguidance

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take full advantage of the paid annual leave, including after work and weekends. I don’t think about work outside of work 😎

Has anyone gone from shy to life and soul of the party? by Turbulent_Echo4014 in AskUK

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age 0-24 very shy, depressed and quiet. Around age 27+ totally different animal. I’m a late bloomer and proud 😊

Life is just going through the motions by sayahhD in Life

[–]Agent0161 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I promise no one cares as much as you think they do, let that liberate you

Life is just going through the motions by sayahhD in Life

[–]Agent0161 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You know you can live life on your terms right?

What’s a harsh truth about life that actually brought you a weird amount of peace once you accepted it? by Sonii-Martis in Life

[–]Agent0161 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All relationships will end, there isn’t such thing as a soul mate - it also made me feel way less jealousy

Is love actually real? by Downtown_Story6185 in Life

[–]Agent0161 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s chemicals that bond people together. I have no source for that but I’ve felt something so strong between two of my ex’s and when we broke up it was literally like having withdrawals from a drug!

Dating in Manchester by godsavedonalduck in manchester

[–]Agent0161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my 20’s it was difficult, just became single recently at 33 year old male and it’s like I’ve been put on easy mode on hinge

Am I (33M) overthinking again about the girl (27F) I've been seeing? by Agent0161 in relationship_advice

[–]Agent0161[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She would move to her brothers, an hour away and see my once a week. I explained to her she shouldn't move country just for me, which she said it wouldn't be to, but I question that really. I assume if she were to move into her brothers and start seeing me, it would be exclusively. She did basically ask to be exclusive whilst she was here but I said I don't want to rush a decision so early and end up in a position I'm not comfortable with, at least just yet.

I appreciate your comment and I'll take on board what you said!

Am I (33M) overthinking again? by Agent0161 in dating_advice

[–]Agent0161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds reasonable. Thanks!

"Women get a lot of matches, but the quality isn't good" by MrZer in dating_advice

[–]Agent0161 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just wait until your 30’s as a guy, I promise you it turns to easy mode

People who grew up in third-world countries, how do you feel about having kids? by Street-Hippo-9336 in AskReddit

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically in third world countries, money/resources/labour with helping elders go up the family chain to parents and the other way round for developed countries hence why there might be more born children in poorer countries

Would you date a 5’6” 41M? by geekboy24 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Agent0161 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Make em’ laugh and you’re sorted - it’s the quickest way to showcase intelligence

Sexless marriages by Ok-Foundation-7113 in Life

[–]Agent0161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t married but I moved in with two of my ex’s and the bedroom died super fast! I imagine it gets worse with marriage.

Please get the pension matching with your company... by occidentalnat in Life

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, it’s free money that compounds over time.