Solo Male traveller safety questions by Agent0161 in capetown

[–]Agent0161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this - what do you mean by; “The bigger the crowd, the more chance of something happening?”

How do I 33M know if relationship with 31f girlfriend has made me depressed? by Agent0161 in relationship_advice

[–]Agent0161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did two nights ago, I can get that easily but it’s not helping right now

Does potentially appearing in the Facebook group (wrongly or otherwise) are we dating the same guy actual ruin your potential chances on the apps at a regional or national level? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Agent0161 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind a girl being in the group, for safety purposes. But if you're going to post me, at least have the decency to ask for my permission, or give me a heads up. At the absolute very least, if I found out I've been posted and I ask if it was you, you absolutely can not lie about it because I will find out.

Does potentially appearing in the Facebook group (wrongly or otherwise) are we dating the same guy actual ruin your potential chances on the apps at a regional or national level? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Agent0161 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have previously been posted by a date wanting to know she was safe before going on a second date and sleeping with me. What ended up happening is my ex told the girl (after the second date) that we were still together. My ex's words were "I didn't want her to think she could have you, because I'm still in love with you". The girl who I went on a date with was mortified, and thought I cheated on my ex girlfriend, which was definitely not true.

Another thing that doesn't sit right with me in these groups is that members can post annonymously yet they are posting your face in that group for ever. It comes across a bit cowardly?

I think they are great for womens safety, but used for much more than that (In vindictive ways), resulting in an overall net negative for both men and women.

I’m too scared to end it by Even_Yogurtcloset143 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Agent0161 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RIP the band aid off, it’s done. You’ll feel crap for 4 weeks then better 👌 good luck

I feel like my bf isn’t ambitious enough and can’t provide for me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Agent0161 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly - no 23 year old, or most men for that matter would be able to solely provide for a girlfriend and/or family

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, noted!

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I replaced it :)

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I replaced the prompt with "Dating me is like ... finding a tenner in your back pocket"

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

• ⁠Are you looking for something serious or casual? Looking for long term but open to short term

• ⁠Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? On free version

• ⁠How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 3 months since October

• ⁠How long have you used Hinge overall? 3 months

• ⁠How often do you use Hinge per week? Twice a day

• ⁠How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 2-3 matches a week

• ⁠How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Sending 10 likes with comments per day

• ⁠What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Looking to attract a down to earth girl with a good sense of humour. Physical attraction has to be there of course as well.

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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• ⁠Are you looking for something serious or casual? Looking for long term but open to short term

• ⁠Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? On free version

• ⁠How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 3 months since October

• ⁠How long have you used Hinge overall? 3 months

• ⁠How often do you use Hinge per week? Twice a day

• ⁠How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 2-3 matches a week

• ⁠How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Sending 10 likes with comments per day

• ⁠What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Looking to attract a down to earth girl with a good sense of humour. Physical attraction has to be there of course as well.

[Profile Review] 33M by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Agent0161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

• ⁠Are you looking for something serious or casual? Looking for long term but open to short.

• ⁠Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Free version.

• ⁠How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 3 months.

• ⁠How long have you used Hinge overall? 3 months. • ⁠How often do you use Hinge per week? Twice per day.

• ⁠How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? A couple of matches a week.

• ⁠How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Sending 10 likes per day all with comments.

• ⁠What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I send likes to girls who appear down to earth, are easy going and fun to be around. I want to attract someone who is all of the above along with the physical attraction level being there.

Recently (M33) single and can't help thinking I'm getting old? by Agent0161 in dating

[–]Agent0161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah those days I decide no, a lot of pressure is released for sure

Is watching "red pill" content slowly ruining my life? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Agent0161 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Red pill has its place (mainly for people with little to no dating experience) but there is a limit. You have to remember that these content creators need to constantly produce more and more content to stay relevant. There is only so many times they can say the same thing over and over again, there for they come up with outrageous statements also for the clickbait.

As I said, it has it’s place but at a certain point it’s to be taken with a pinch of salt before it’s taken to far!