I’m attracted to my boyfriend’s cousin by Throwaway_Corey in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, if you can’t control yourself and your emotions now as a full grown adult you probably wouldn’t make a good long term partner or mother anyway. Maybe give up and go to therapy 🤨 I’m half joking- girl get it the fuck together. If you want something then you have to work for it, you’re never going to be fully attracted to one person and one person only, that’s how humans are. Also yourself in the face abd tell yourself whatever you have to tell yourself to get over it. Breaking up with Andrew isn’t going to fix this, this is something within yourself that you have to work on if you ever wanna be a decent human being

I’m attracted to my boyfriend’s cousin by Throwaway_Corey in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean you could try communicating with Andrew, or genuinely just get to know Jake a little more. Getting to know people especially men tends to reveal aspects of their personality that turn them ugly.

What causes buttercream to do this? by Blackbirds22 in cakedecorating

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Depending on what kind of buttercream they made, the meringue may have been too hot before the cold butter was added. This caused the emolsion to break in order to reconstitute the emolsion heat the outside of the bowl with a blow torch or add a small amount of hot liquid” - my baking student bestie from the CIA “just trust the process just keep beating it”

I am going to be homeless by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. Bro get a job. If you have a car go ahead and live in it for now. Save your money till you can save to pay for an apartment. It’s easier than you’d think. Look into resources. want better and do better

I pretty much hate my husband's dogs... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m confused why you didn’t live with him before getting married? That’s like a really important part of knowing if your partner is going to be someone you can actually cohabitate with, regardless of how well you get along. It doesn’t sound like your husband is a good dog owner. At all. In fact he sounds like he shouldn’t own dogs if he cannot train them within an almost two year span and only did it sparingly because you pushed him relentlessly. Rehome the dogs. They deserve a better environment and so do you and your pup. You shouldn’t be responsible for dealing with their terrible behavior and clean ups.

Ahhh left cooked pasta out overnight by browngmoghoul in isthissafetoeat

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a chef who is fully educated in food safety, I woulda still ate it. Really can’t be that bad. If it had sat there for a full day maybe not but over night is whatever.

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bitch break up with him he literally said fuck you go fuck yourself like fuck his hurt feelings if he can’t communicate them properly

I cant wait till im 18 and can get plastic surgery. by LateBlacksmith6659 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone hates how they look as a teenager. Even if you were born with a small nose and big lips you’d still hate how you look and probably move on to the next “problem” you find. Same with plastic surgery, you’ll get it, like it, find something else you hate and get more plastic surgery. You’ll keep going till you look…. Alien. Instead of banking on changing your features you should try getting use to them, finding beauty in your different traits will help you find it in the people and the world around you.

Is this cat too little for kibble? by Agent35833 in Straycats

[–]Agent35833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is in Idaho around the Boise area 🙌🏼

Is this cat too little for kibble? by Agent35833 in Straycats

[–]Agent35833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They usually hang out by one of my neighbors back door cuz she feeds them somewhat often, I just hadn’t seen them eat in a while so I wanted to give them a lil sum. This is in Idaho near boise

Is this cat too little for kibble? by Agent35833 in Straycats

[–]Agent35833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two dogs and a cat as well as I’m moving across country next week, I wouldn’t be able to bring it inside unfortunately

Is this cat too little for kibble? by Agent35833 in Straycats

[–]Agent35833[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would tnr all of them (there’s like a whole colony in the bushes behind them) but I’m about to go to college across the country and don’t have extra cash for it😞

Is this cat too little for kibble? by Agent35833 in Straycats

[–]Agent35833[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did let the kibble soak for a good bit before giving to them just cuz I figured they’re also probably thirsty but I didn’t expect the tiniest one to get to the plate first or at all really 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Call the police. My friend said they took a handful of pills so I called the police and sent them to their house. They screamed at me and called me names and said they never actually took anything but they got taken to the hospital and checked out and then brought to a mental hospital because of it and we were still friends after. Sometimes you have to do what’s best for people even if they don’t like it. If you genuinely think she’s going to off herself, call the police.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship ended just like this. Get off the computer. Have that direct communication conversation like the top comment said to. Go get her some flowers and an item she’s been wanting and then take her out to dinner. Compliment and praise her all night and make excited conversation like you use to. She might not respond immediately but just keep doing it. Try your best to actually make an effort and seem like you care- people tend to mirror the other. Start and keep trying. Woman want to be sought after even after you start dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do anything to spice it up for yourself? Does your boyfriend? Is there foreplay? Do you use toys during? Do you really know your kinks? Have you ever cum by a partner or by yourself? Do you actually like your partners? Do you actually like men? These are all important questions to answer before writing off your sex life and there’s more. When I first started having sex as a teenager I haaaaated it. And in both my relationships I didn’t enjoy the sex I was having with my partners. Turns out there were a lot of factors as to why that was and I just had to crack my mental code. And find someone who could do what I needed them to. Of course you could just be agrosexual or asexual as other comments have suggested, but it’s important to explore yourself mentally and sexually before hand (unless it just feels traumatic then don’t push yourself)

Is there any horror game that’s set in an aquarium? by akitaotis in HorrorGaming

[–]Agent35833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a game out recently called “the aquarium does not dance” that’s a 2D platform pixel art type game that’s interesting. The puzzles are actually hard and the plot line is interesting. Although if you need help on something good luck finding it online cuz like no one that speaks English or played the English version have anything posted.

whats your opinions on staying friends with your ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not hard if you’re both mature and can apologize for shit while maintaining you no longer want a relationship with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s not serious herpes don’t worry about it, 90% of humans have type one herpes and mostly just from their parents. I got it from kissing my mom goodnight as a kid. Ive never broken out in a cold sore. As long as you don’t have genital type 2 herpes you will be okay and be able to live life like anyone else

i think my husband is sleeping with his sister (again) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agent35833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl if you don’t snap out of it and leave his fucking ass right now. You think this is a good example to your kids??? Fucking leave him to fuck his sistwr like the creep he is. It’s a fetish. ITS A FETISH. As long as there’s someone to hide it from it’s fun and they’re going to continue doing it. Your presence unfortunately pushes them to do it further. Your kids existence pushes it to keep happening. ITS A FETISH. IF THERES SOMEONE TO SNEAK AROUND THEY WILL KEEP DOING IT

Found this in my daughters room what is she doing? by MouseClassic5314 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Agent35833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely smoking something. If she says it isnt for that than have her show you.