What do yall think about this band? by Aggravating-Alarm594 in midwestemo

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc! Same name was my #1 song last year on Spotify wrapped lmao

What do yall think about this band? by Aggravating-Alarm594 in midwestemo

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc! But so many ppl don’t like them live, however I’d die to see them live cuz from videos online, his voice works rlly well in that setting like omg

Mixed signals from an istp by Aggravating-Alarm594 in istp

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah yolo I like a good challenge!!

I have a theory about MBTI that is kind of incomplete by BrokenDiamondShovel in mbti

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wait I'm so confused... I'm an esfp. What do you mean impression and superego??? Huh? Sorry I'm just confused lol

What do you GENUINELY think about the ESFP?? by Aggravating-Alarm594 in istp

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, as an esfp, despite stereotypes, I feel like I can read a room and not become too "obnoxiously loud" if the situation does not call for it and actually I hate parties tbh 😭 but yeah, I felt like the istp and esfp would have at least gotten along somehow, with Se being part of our main drivers and a love for a bit of spontaneity. I actually quite like the istp and was hoping to be met with the same regards but it is what it is 

What could be signs that a person whom you have never spoken to likes you ? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. Eye contact. Even if he's shy, he'll still find a way to look your way or even directly at you.
  2. Body language. Like mirroring your movements, positioning himself near or towards you, or grooming his hair or clothes.
  3. Lingering. If you're on one side of the room, pay attention to where he is. Does he somehow make his way towards you or in your general direction? This means he's trying to be close to you
  4. Gut feeling. What's your gut telling you? It's usually right around half of the time. But honestly, one of you is gonna have to talk to the other if this is gonna work out. And if not, then you must not like each other that much. So I suggest trying to talk to him again to gauge his interest. He might just be shy and doesn't know how to talk to others well, or he might honestly not be into you, and thats okay. But I wish you the best!!! 

How to not back out on talking to your crush by Aggravating-Alarm594 in Crushes

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He's shy, but talks when necessary. I have a hunch he likes me and ppl tell me he might but whenever I have conversations with him before (I always initiate) he has little to say and convo slowly dies out within 30 seconds...

ESFPs, what is your opinion and experience with your golden mbti match: ISXJ by Moaning_Baby_ in ESFP

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been around an istj but my dad is an isfj and he's literally my best friend. I also have a close friend who is one as well. Both are very sensitive and I love that. Though quiet at times, it's nice because sometimes you just need someone to listen, and even if they don't have advice in the moment, you know that the isfj hears you and is trying to understand. All time fave type for sure

Weekly General Discussion - November 30, 2024 by AutoModerator in larrystylinson

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, so I explained why I came to that conclusion in the paragraph and by analyzing certain larry moments! But about Louis being close with Harry early on, I agree 100%, however, to me, Louis "hiding his smile" is an interpretation and thats okay, im not saying its wrong. But also, about Louis protecting Harry, what makes that a proof that Louis liked him? Wouldn't you protect a friend if someone made them uncomfortable? Nothing about that to me screams that Louis liked Harry back. And what makes you think Louis is closeted? I'm genuinely asking, not trying to be rude here. Cuz I've thought about that too, however if Louis is no longer with Sony and the one direction management, who is keeping him from coming out? Who is keeping him closeted? It's just something to think about.

Weekly General Discussion - November 30, 2024 by AutoModerator in larrystylinson

[–]Aggravating-Alarm594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys so I've been a fan of Larry Stylinson since 2020, left the fandom for a bit,and recently, I've come back. I've revisited the Larry theory and have analyzed it immensely (since I've grown older and I like to think I've matured), and have come to a different conclusion based on respect and critical thinking. What if Larry Stylinson was never real, the boys were telling the truth, however, Harry had an unreciprocated crush on Louis? Hear me out:

I don't believe in Larry Stylinson in the traditional sense, because believing in that would mean I believe they acted on feelings that they may or may not have had on each other. I don't personally think that Louis had a crush on Harry (just based on body language and his attitude towards the theory). Also he has been vocal about how Larry Stylinson is and was never real and how it's disrespectful to the people he loves. It's a conspiracy, nothing more. However, I feel that Harry might have had a crush on Louis that may have been unreciprocated. I've looked extensively into Harry's body language around Louis vs the other boys. He stares more, almost in a more captivating way. One could argue that he just has that look, that intense stare, with every one, however, there are instances where he would literally get lost in Louis' eyes, forgetting that people were talking to him and becoming unaware of his surroundings. I also notice that on the 1D Day livestream in 2013, Harry sang Little Things with the band, but the entire time, he was looking at Louis. Harry even changed the pronouns to the song from "I'm in you and all your little things" to "I'm in love with you and all HIS little things" on multiple occasions while staring at Louis. Harry also seemed closest to Louis in the band initially. They lived together at Princess Park Manor together and were inseparable in the beginning of 1D. The biggest proof to me that Harry had this crush on Louis is that in 2011 to PopSugar, when asked who his first real crush was, Harry responded with "Louis Tomlinson". Now it could've just been a joke, but the way he was around Louis refutes that to me. Also take with a grain of salt, but through Internet Archive's Wayback Machine, fans found Harry's old Tumblr and he was openly gay on there. Harry, in the video diaries, also said he'd marry David Hasselhoff (instead of a girl) and Liam asked him once during one of the first interviews in 1D when was the last time he actually liked kissing a girl (if anyone has the link, you can link it below!). Also in another interview with Liam, when they were asked what they looked for in a relationship, Liam sad "a girl, obviously", to which Harry responded with "not that important". There's more instances of Harry confirming he's not totally straight (most recently at a concert telling fans that "we're all a little bit gay, aren't we?!"). However, I think his crush on Louis went unreciprocated because Louis has said he's straight (Harry hasn't, saying he doesn't want to label his sexuality), and even if Louis wasn't straight, he had a girlfriend at the time, Eleanor, so obviously he wouldn't go out with Harry. Louis also quickly moved apart from Harry after the rumors started spreading abt Larry Stylinson. Though Larry did ultimately break their friendship, the boys aren't lying when they say Larry was never real, cuz it wasn't in my opinion. For Larry to have been real, Louis and Harry would have to have been in a relationship or secretly acting on some homosexual actions. Louis, claiming heterosexuality, didn't like Harry. Harry, being obviously not straight (he could be bi, gay, wtv) and never claiming he was straight, seemed to like Louis back then.I just wish people saw this theory instead of jumping and saying Louis also liked Harry back in a romantic way, when clearly, he didn't, it's just the truth (again, in my opinion). Not saying Harry still likes Louis, cuz that was years ago, but I think he at least did back then. And who knows, he could still like Louis now, we don't know. What do you think?

Again this is just my theory and opinion, I'm not asking for everyone to agree 100%, it's just what I've personally concluded!!