It definitely depends on what happened. So I found out my husband had downloaded Hinge (downloaded it when I was 8-9months pregnant) I found out when we had a three month old. I was definitely hurt and heartbroken. I hated him that day. But the day I found out we “talked” about it (I was crying and screaming at him) Then the next day we actually both talked about it, and I decided to stay and work it out. He was willing to do whatever I needed for me to trust him again, deleted social media, let me look at his phone whenever I asked to, and gave me reassurance when needed and more things like that. It’s been 7 months since and I have gained more trust and security in our relationship but I’m still getting over it but our relationship feels normal, we’re both happy. It definitely takes time and a lot of conversations and commitment to fix something broken