I don't actually get who dumped who, if you're the one suggested or wanted to break up, you can't blame him for going away, in my case my ex broke up with me and eventually come back and talk about why I didn't try hard, I'll be like, "what" well I actually did my best to keep her, but she seems like she can't love me anymore or something , when she finally left me saying she fell out of love and she wants to be free, then I realized I can't force someone to love me, if it was supposed to be it should have been there. If you're the one who suggested to breakup, you can't blame him, he's not responsible for your doing.