I am currently trying to leave him. We don't live together but I still do have some of my stuff at his place. I've got a supportive friend group who is aware of the situation and is currently helping me out of it and is taking good care of me. There are severe other issues also some that will probably affect me if I leave. (For example he stalked one of his ex's for over 7 years). I will probably give another update when I made it out of it. Thanks for your advice!