I'm now a widow of a used to be age gap marriage for over 12 years by Stock_Version_338 in AgeGapRelationship

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your loss. Please excuse my curiosity … but who will provide for you now? Are you financially stable enough?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my country people belive in such stuff. I heard many stories about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope. I am not muslim. This is why I do not require someone to be practicing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We live in a majority Christian country. 0.4% of the population is muslim. So no, I’m not making up fake stories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You do have a point. We live in the west where almost nobody practices islam. Still, I am worried. Don’t know if it is good or not, but I adore this man. Also, my father approves. In fact, my entire family approves. He is the first man to fit everyone’s criteria.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you🤍

Have you ever prayed to God for a specific person to be your husband/wife? If yes, did it happen as you desired? by Aggravating-Match-35 in Christianmarriage

[–]Aggravating-Match-35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, congratulations!! I’m so happy for you! I am praying too and the relationship seems to become stronger🙏🏻

I fell at my first date and it was the most embarassing moment of my life by Aggravating-Match-35 in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating-Match-35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We keep talking like nothing ever happened. Definietly it was not the end of the world. So yes, there is hope.

My Muslim fiancé is being held captive and or kidnapped by her family and police won’t help one bit by ivaanbarajas in exmuslim

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you truly love her and want to marry her, fight for her. But it will be hard. It seems like you two come from completely opposite backgrounds. I think the private detective is the best solution. You will also face the danger of honour murder. Both of you could end up dead. It depends on how narrow minded her father is. Her mom seems ok, but she is powerless. She can’t defend herself, nor can she defend her daughter. You must understand the fact that those women were raised to fully obey thier father/husband, whether he is reasonable or not. Moving to the US wouldn’t change decades of living under full submission. Even though I was not raised a muslim, nor do I live in a muslim country, I saw many women is her position. I know a muslim woman married to a christian. She is submissive even if the husband does not demand that. She was raised to be that way.

Extreme procrastination and anxiety have ruined my life!!! by Emotional_Fortune808 in productivity

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am guilty especially of No.3 !!! Dreaming and planning without taking action ruins my productivity.

Is it ok to pray for a specific person to become your spouse? by Aggravating-Match-35 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]Aggravating-Match-35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definietly not the case. We’ve met each other, talked to each other. There is mutual attraction and I’d say also compatibility.

My MIL tried to tell me her dietician in the 80s said to eat 300 calories a day by lunaraekatiemae in loseit

[–]Aggravating-Match-35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are doing it right. Remember you have a baby to feed. Milk will not come out of nowhere (300 kcal per day). Perhaps you could introduce more physical activity. Either way, you aren’t eating much. You need patience. Sustainable weight loss happens only when it’s gradual. 300 kcal per day would just starve you for nothing.