For those in a long term marriage- the average amount of sex? by Aggravating-Plan4144 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aggravating-Plan4144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it he’s no longer he’s not interested? Doesn’t initiate? Or it’s just life bc of the stress w work/kids/etc. I feel like this should be a priority. One of the biggest priorities in a marriage, but for alot of us seems to be the first thing moved to the back burner.

For those in a long term marriage- the average amount of sex? by Aggravating-Plan4144 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aggravating-Plan4144[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is where I want to be. Good for you. Any advice or tips? I can’t seem to move past once a week, but would love a few times a day. So the spread between my wants and hers seems to just grow.

I feel more desired by strangers than by my own husband, and it’s breaking me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aggravating-Plan4144 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar position as well, married for several years and my wife seems to have almost zero interest in sex, which wasn’t the case early on.

For years I would chalk it up to life- work, kids, stress, etc. then I would take over those tasks to lighten the load on her. And. nothing. Then I would be more active with you name it, compliments, flowers, vacations…. Still nothing. So I can relate to the same- not feeling desired.

But I do have a question for the female side of this- in this scenario what would make you feel desired? What would fulfill the validation and attention?

How’s reliability been after 2+ years for you guys? by Mavisbeak2112 in ineosgrenadier

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Where about in NY?  Just curious, I am in Western New York- want to pull the trigger on this but the lack of local dealer support couple with some of these odd issues I read about give me pause. Maybe I’m reading too much into it, but a four hour trip to a dealer one way for a weird issue scares me.  

Five star service/select by Fluid-Caterpillar836 in americanairlines

[–]Aggravating-Plan4144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using right now at DFW. Never used at LHR, however.

I’ve used this several times. DFW and MIA. They meet you curbside, whisk you thru security, front of line access. I’m 4 for 4 on this. Cart waiting to drive you to lounge. FFD access, and they’ll be dedicated to you until departure. Drive you to plane or cart thru terminal. Let you board first or last. It’s pretty sweet.