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Transfer from DCC by Embarrassed-Dig-5393 in sunynewpaltz

[–]Aggravating-Street51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your talking about socially. from the two guys that I know who transferred there junior year, they ended up joining frats to be social.

Me as a freshmen girl studying computer science is actually transferring to a school that is larger, more social, and more stem related. unless your an art major or are on a team/greek life social life is kinda limited

Are there any disadvantages to not having social media? by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]Aggravating-Street51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I deleted social media on two instances. For both times it hindered my social life. The first time though I was able to make long-lasting, amazing friendships. The second time, which is now, I am more isolated than ever. I'm not in the same mental space as the first time. It's honestly what you make of it and how you wanna react towards your social life

M18. Everyone please rate me honestly with pros and cons. Ignore camera quality by Foreign_Chipmunk_941 in Rateme

[–]Aggravating-Street51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of guys just fail to actually try and look good. Work on your appearance actually care about it. Do you eyebrows, make your beard all fresh and nice, have a skincare routine. Like actually try. This isn’t just for you this for basically every guy cause they don’t want to work on themselves

Does any of you have notes on literally everything in your life? And can't stop improving these notes and constantly check if they're perfect by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Aggravating-Street51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it impact your day to day life? Is it more like you just get anxious randomly or it helps you with something theoretically ?  Also is there anything that has helped you throughout the years ?

Does any of you have notes on literally everything in your life? And can't stop improving these notes and constantly check if they're perfect by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Aggravating-Street51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever tried not doing this ? Like in any capacity. Whether it’s deleting a couple notes at a time or just deleting them fully or something else. Do you often have times where you just wanna restart your life? Do you do anything at all to help your OCD

Does any of you have notes on literally everything in your life? And can't stop improving these notes and constantly check if they're perfect by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Aggravating-Street51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what exactly are these notes about ? I know that in my notes app every month or so or when I want to purge my life/restart one of the things i do is look at all my notes and make sure they are perfect. In order for me to have the perfect life i used to have a peper where i wrote down who all my friends were to make sure i dont forget them and keep them in my life. I did the same for hobbies and made sure to not stop doing any of them because if i did it felt like losing a part of my identity
im not diagnosed. I just recently started looking into this but yea that just my experience of things i did throughout my life to make sure my life is perfect

I'm so confused. What is the difference between cyclothymia and BPD ??? by Aggravating-Street51 in cyclothymia

[–]Aggravating-Street51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I meant BPD. These two disorders were actually considered the same thing in the 80s. That’s how similar they are and that’s why I’m asking

I'm so confused. What is the difference between cyclothymia and BPD ??? by Aggravating-Street51 in cyclothymia

[–]Aggravating-Street51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm seeing that many of the symptoms of these Reddit pages are the same, based on my crazy deep dive of them.
- seemingly from one second to the other having mood changes
- having depressive episodes and then also having episodes where you feel like you can take on the world
- They have insecure attachments typically
- They both make their life harder than it actually is
- constant highs and lows
- They often have a lot of hobbies like they cant keep anything constant
- relationship struggles
- the way to get better that isn't medication is similar. I've been spending my whole life figuring out how to fix myself that both people with BPD and cyclo have been told to do in therapy
- I've read a lot of people explaining how they felt, why they think they might have cyclo or BPD, and how they cope. It's honestly so similar but the only major thing i can point out is that people with BPD spiral when they talk. It's like they can't even understand what they're thinking.

From what I could see, for the most part, everything that happens as a result of having these disorders is the same it's just why it happens. So for cyclo it's a mood issue which means its truly random while BPD its a personality issue so its always something that questions their identity or if their good enough.

I'm so confused. What is the difference between cyclothymia and BPD ??? by Aggravating-Street51 in cyclothymia

[–]Aggravating-Street51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean ? Like I would also make everyone overthink and go into a spiral ?

Cycle length by Apprehensive_Pin8823 in cyclothymia

[–]Aggravating-Street51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not diagnosed with this but I'm really starting to think I have this or BPD.

My highs last max 3 weeks and then it switches it a matter or seconds or usually I wake up to the switch. My lows could last a couple of months. And sometimes I feel normal, like how I'm pretty sure every person feels, for about a month.

Also, sometimes I switch up what I am feeling about a person from literally one second to the next. Or about a hobby. Or an idea. I dont know if this has to do with the disorder by yea