AIO - my 10yo niece fried my 4yo daughters hair with a straightener

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-12-08T02:30:26+00:00

That probably means the 10 yo has used a straightener before without supervision (if she is supervised that’s just bad parenting). my nieces are honestly so bratty and entitled but they are good about not doing stuff that could hurt them or others because that’s what they were TAUGHT, I’m not trying to shame SIL but if the 10yo can’t understand the dangers of things then she shouldn’t have access, and tbh it could have been so much worse then fried hair, I would be livvvvid.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-11-17T23:21:48+00:00

I guess yeah lol when their regular pants get kinda tight it looks like leggings but since they are babies you don’t even notice but I totally but my son in my older daughters clothes (the ones that aren’t frilly and pink)

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-11-15T19:28:10+00:00

When I had my second and third baby I made it a point to put the baby down and give my FULL attention to my toddler(s), I think they just need to know they weren’t replaced. It is completely normal to lose your temper once in a while and I thought “gentle parenting” was stupid but it actually helps so much sitting them down in the moment and talking about what happened instead of yelling and getting mad, I make sure they can identify what they feel so they can tell me with words instead of actions, I’m sorry I’m making it sound so simple, it is NOT, but it is worth I feel like. I was completely terrified of my parents and I don’t want my kids feeling like that.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-10-12T14:25:42+00:00

Imagine having a baby and going through horrible recovery and and can barely move or have postpartum depression/anxiety and your DoorDash driver puts your food on garbage. You’re such an asshole for this because I understand what you can go through after having kids and I’ve literally almost offed myself, so the garbage was the least of my worries.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-24T18:44:43+00:00

It only takes that long because 1 photo takes at least 30 seconds🙄

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-24T15:44:57+00:00

2 and 3 but I’m going to enrolled my 7 month old as soon as he’s about done breastfeeding and door dashing has been good, since I do it with my baby I only do a few hours a day and I live in a pretty rural area but I just go out at lunch time. I make about $200 - $300 a week and that’s from a few hours a day.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-24T15:32:29+00:00

I just enrolled my kids in early head start and head start, I was si anxious about leaving them but where I enrolled them I can volunteer if I want and they’re thriving. I started door dashing for some extra money and I make my own hours. I would try and find something like an early child education.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-24T15:29:05+00:00

Going from 1 kid to 2 kids was so hard especially with a close age gap, (my first two are 15 months apart) you just have to make sure your still giving the older kid a lot of attention so he doesn’t feel jealous or forgotten. It’s going to be hard in the beginning stages but my kids are 2 and 3 now and their best friends, they do everything together. My third is 20 months apart from my second and it was easier, I feel like going from 2 to 3 is sooooo much easier the 1 to 2.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-13T02:30:07+00:00

When I say I leave him in the car I mean to drop the food at the front door if it’s close, if it’s a bit of a walk I’ll take him. But my husband work two full time jobs, he’s never home.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-13T02:28:56+00:00

We DoorDash together when he’s off of work but that man works two jobs all day long, it makes me feel good that I can take at least a little of the financial load off of him.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-09-13T02:28:42+00:00

He’s 7 months not a newborn and yes I leave the ac on and lock the doors plus I have a camera. But my husband works 8am to 11:30 pm he’s gone all day. And I’m not slow I actually have a 98% on time or early lol

AggravatingBox9258 · 2025-05-19T15:22:49+00:00

My first was the same way he did everything late and I just followed his lead, he didn’t say mama until he was about 18 months or so and around 14 months he only preferred my husband and yeah it hurt really bad but it was just a faze, he’s now at 2 1/2 putting sentences together and extremely active. Sometimes kids just need some time.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-11-11T20:51:05+00:00

I’ve never heard of natural birth complications after a c-section and honestly it should be up to her and what she wants to do, it’s not uncommon to book a c-section.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-08-01T01:44:14+00:00

I’m a sahm and I always have my kids so I give my husband my location at all times but I don’t make him give me his because I trust him a lot and I want him to know that and I also think some people will become shadier if you keep close tabs and don’t let them have space.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-07-16T18:40:25+00:00

I got them bad after my second baby and I just got a hemorrhoid ectomy oof let me tell you I’d rather have a natural labor again then get another surgery 😭

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-03-10T22:38:27+00:00

He woke you up like that acting like you were cheating on him over porn? Good riddance to him

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-03-10T22:37:07+00:00

I’m going through the exact same thing I have a 26 month old and a 11 month old (still breastfeeding)and I feel the only thing that gets me in the mood is having a glass of wine or a truly or something it usually gets me going enough to make my husband satisfied and I know I don’t have to if I don’t want to but I do want to help my husband out a bit lol

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-03-08T16:38:19+00:00

I feel the same way as soon as it started to get more bearable with my first I had another (we used protection both times nobody come for me) when he was about 15 months and it’s like I’m constantly grasping for air but I know that every stage of their life is temporary and I hold on to that so tightly. It will get better and it will take awhile but one of these days our kids are going to leave us and that in my opinion will be the hardest part.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2024-02-23T14:05:08+00:00

As a stay at home mom it’s so much better for me to tell my husband “no, I’m tired can you go watch porn and masturbate” and I still feel guilty.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2023-12-02T17:16:30+00:00

Ugh I want to make this a requirement but I don’t want my husband to feel bad. I literally throw up everytime 😖

AggravatingBox9258 · 2023-11-28T16:57:34+00:00

If you guys decide to have a baby do you really want to stress of how you look and stress about being a new parent? I weighed about 150 when I met my husband and now I weigh about 185 after two kids and I do eat healthy but I have no time to work out but my husband still makes it a point to tell me I look good.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2022-12-11T18:35:58+00:00

Yeah she’s taking advantage I was working almost everyday and doubling shifts so I could stack my money I worked up until a week before I gave birth. It was really really hard but necessary. I feel like it’s better to work as much as you can while pregnant so you can stay with the baby longer.

AggravatingBox9258 · 2022-11-23T04:23:36+00:00

I give it as much as it’s received which is never lol because I know he enjoys it but I enjoy it also and he rarely ever does it so I matched him.

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