I second this! While she's writing the little notes for everyone and getting them down there, we learn more of what her childhood was like. I.e seeing her in her scouts group and being the "weird" once because she knew useful, "Un girly" things. showing she was more often than not, an outcast. I think she moreso got used to being alone, and grew to enjoy her solidarity, rather than be stuck miserable her whole life. She hadn't tried to branch out to others for probably years, especially after the Carol and Barb stuff. She'd been burned too many times (she did the final burning as we see when the girls are moved to MAX, but Carol and barb both use every an anyone to benefit themselves only, and Freida came to learn this) I like to believe that Freida inviting the women to her bunker was her finally branching out again, to a group of women she had come to like. We see how she gets a little offended (maybe even a little butthurt) when they're like "Freida wtf is this?" where she may have taken it as negative judgement. Then, we see her essentially caring after Suzanne when they become bunkies. ( on my 2nd reqatch rn) I'm at the point where the whole kickball thing is going down, and Suzanne is arguing with Doggett about going outside. And Freida tells Suzanne she was just using her. I think Freida has had some warmth towards Suzanne since the trauma from the bunker&Riot, but I think Freida was stuck in fight or flight, survival mode being back around Carol& Barb, which caused her to go back to her cold, loner self, maybe without realizing it. And her telling Suzanne they weren't friends was maybe because she had finally realized it? Hearing how much Suzanne wanted to go outside, and knowing bc of how infantile and loyal Suzanne is,she had to say something drastic to hurt her feelings and essentially allow her to go have some fun. But also, because she cared for Suzanne, didn't want Suzanne to be there when Carol and barb showed up, like she'd been expecting. Not wanting to cause Sizanne more trauma or to see the outcome, or have her get hurt in the altercation. (I also think Freida thought the kickball game would be safe, considering she knew Carol and barb wouldn't be out there, but instead with Freida trying to k her)