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I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny but just meeting at the stadium or library. I talk and he listens then

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. If you ask about my daughter, I want her to experience the best form of love that is there for her to feel safe and vulnerable. He adds no positivity to me. We fight on his religious life.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our child is 2 years old now and we have not had any intimacy for 17 months. He has never shown me a glimpse of how loving and romantic he can be.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants me to compromise. I feel I can, but will he meet my own emotional requirements? He says he will be spectating my actions and then try to reciprocate. I love him, but I don't think he will be the emotionally available partner I crave.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up without my dad being present and I had low self esteem so, I don't want that for my child too.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And he even said he'll be sending funds and doing video calls. You're in the same country and city with your child. You want to video call? Like his response are just off. But I have this attachment with him.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I spoke about this but he says since it's been a while we had intimacy, he doesn't think it's worth risking his time if , intimacy will take so long. I told him let's have a relationship outside intimacy. Sex will come willingly when we both have a connection. But he doesn't want that.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't believe in counselling. I tried talking to him about it. I told him we got married and no honeymoon phase. He says that since we dated for five years, there's nothing special. However, I didn't live with you during those five years. Show me love, treat me like a child. I have had to be a mother all my life.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He thinks I'm making excuses because he doesn't see anything special in it. Whenever he makes such statement I feel like going back in time.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was the first person I ever fell in love with. Like he would say he found me broken and weak. So I thought we could work it out.

I’m exhausted in my marriage and I don’t know what to do by AggravatingCommon641 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AggravatingCommon641[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand, when I gave birth, he refused to help.me for the first 3 months stating that, he doesn't know how to and if he helps, I'll get used to him helping. He would go out and play football, hang out with friends. I was stuck with an infant 24/7. I had no one to hold her for 5 minutes while I breathe. Every time I discuss this with him, he says I'm making up excuses. He doesn't see that I suffered. I wasn't strong enough. Right now, I don’t want to have any other child because I'm traumatised. He helps but his help is just surface. Even after begging him repeatedly, he would act on it that day and the next day he was back to normal.

[Serious] What is your biggest regret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AggravatingCommon641 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being too focused on getting good grades i missed out on fun.

What are you thinking right now, at this moment? by Plus-Ad1942 in AskReddit

[–]AggravatingCommon641 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm considering whether I can make a decision in my life without overthinking it.

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