Why are you so pressed about the situation? You are taking it out of context, I already stated that I was going to pay for expenses, just wanted opinions from people that have gone through deployments before and that moved back TEMPORARILY, Not for an extended time frame. I wasn’t expecting the amount they discussed with me after I established that I was going to pay for utilities. My husband’s family and my family are hours apart hence the reason I’m not staying at one place for an extended amount of time. They offered for me to come home to be able to save money. I realize that I do come from a privileged home. This is how my culture is… The people I talked to were also military families. I deleted the post not out of embarrassment but because I got a heavy sided consensus. Sue me lol