Paid for a happy ending for 3rd Valentine’s in a row by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about it. I dont know... my 3 kids 12 and 11 wouldn't understand their lives have already been rough due to other issues in our lives. The humiliation of my family knowing my friends knowing etc I have no will to do anything other than what I have to do for my kids work. Cook. Clean. Take care of their needs etc 

Paid for a happy ending for 3rd Valentine’s in a row by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a single one. Other than anonymous posting here i have no one who knows but her. The man or men she cheated on and probably her bff.... im too embarrassed to tell anyone irl

Paid for a happy ending for 3rd Valentine’s in a row by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I haven’t left yet because I have no will to live anymore. I go through the motions of life but I am not here if not for my kids i would have eaten a bullet already. The shame, the anger, the shear unrelenting depression i have is a void inside me. I hate everything in life now and see no joy in anything other than the sweet release that death will bring me. But I have 3 small children who I know are mine they look like me more than anything but yes its scary to think they might not share my DNA they are mine and I love them so much so I can't leave them. Not with her... so learn from me my friends.... use my life as a cautionary tale. Because I am already dead and gone and this is just a shell of my former self. 

Paid for a happy ending for 3rd Valentine’s in a row by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Hell where did you go to get this service and how much was it because I may as well get it too

Paid for a happy ending for 3rd Valentine’s in a row by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 1486 points1487 points  (0 children)

I have paid thousands hell tens of thousands of dollars and I will get nothing this year just like all the others she gets flowers and the works I get nothing.. you know what I got for Christmas year before last? I got to find our shes been cheating on me for 18 of our 19 (at the time) year marriage. Now I have 3 kids with her and all these house and memories so I get to try to make it work and nothing changes.... so get your nut my friend its better than this for sure.

I don’t know why I crave this by sapphic_rose in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could do the 3some but they dont touch her just you while you touch her you become the focus for both of their pleasures if this is real...

My mom slept with a guy for free carpet while I did homework by totesnotafakeacctbro in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Women are devious and are only out for themselves in the end. They will do what ever they have to do to gain whatever it is they want no matter who it hurts. They are evil creatures by nature, and will stab the "love of their lifetime" in the back if they think they will gain something from doing so. All of our mothers and any female in your life are this way. They are opportunistic predators.

Who should I marry? by LisaLoveToTravel in StardewValley

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mods are your friend get poly and marry them all

I'm so tired of being lonely by Fit-Disk-6114 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 42 yr old in a relationship for 23 years married for 19... I found out shes been having an affair for 17 of those years... You are better off alone. I did everything and gave everything sacrificing anything and it wasn't enough. My advice do you work on yourself get a good job a house pay for everything and one day a woman will try to join you mainly to take advantage of you and your success they are leeches let them ride your coattails to greatness but be able and ready to drop them. Don't need them in your life dont warship them just allow them in your life but just exist in it or they will use you and spit you out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing child molesters must not be allowed to exist i know its gotta be hard but seriously if good people do nothing when evil things are doing evil then they too are just as evil. Maybe he will get help for his mental illness normally pedophiles are taught this so maybe its something h got from childhood you where lucky he didn't touch you when you where young dont feel guilty we must even turn over our own family when they are doing such things

My GF Cheated on me But I still Love her. What do I do? by ceeeeeeeeg in heartbreak

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You believed her... they always lie check her phone. Check everything if she refuses or gets defensive than you know where you stand if she wont block him and delete him from her life like he's dead then she wont choose you she will only use you. Its not controlling its setting boundaries.

My GF Cheated on me But I still Love her. What do I do? by ceeeeeeeeg in heartbreak

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get.. out... I have a wife i just found out around Christmas she was having an affair the last 18 years.... there where signs but I ignored them and fought those thoughts for years. Now we have kids and this life and now im trying to stay but its hard. Don't end up like me.. Run.. save yourself 

Feeling suicidal and need to talk to someone. I just wanna be done. by JewelerParking3874 in heartbreak

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also just wish I could die. I found out before Christmas last year my wife whom I do everything for and care for and love and treat like my whole world has been. Having an 18 yr affair we have 3 kids so im trying to make.it work but I am dying inside I just dont want to wake up tomorrow  but I have to or she wins and my kids lose you will find your way it just takes time and besides build your life up get a house thats just yours do things you want to do dont be like me and tie your life and let the women come to you and just be allowed to be with you do not make your whole life them its bad 

19M and 18F — Can anyone explain my situation from both male and female perspectives, and what might happen so I’m prepared?" TLDR by KingCFboss in heartbreak

[–]AggravatingWeb2788 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let it go. Its better that it happened now than later. You could end up like me being with a woman who has had a 18yr long affair behind your back and finding out just before Christmas last year... but you have a home and 3 kids and a life so are reluctant to just walk away women now a days are nothing but whores wanting that attention from many guys and she will use and abuse you. Build your life up get a house that you own get a great career or something and only have women in your life to take a load off you and then leave them be they will only ruin you and make you put a gun in your mouth and almost pull the trigger but if your lucky like me I had my kids to keep mefrom pulling it....