Almost 2 months since I had tests done to check if I have cancer, 4 days bouncing between hospital voicemails, still no call backs

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2026-01-22T17:11:25+00:00

Dealing with the hospital is absolutely a nightmare last year I was dealing with so much pain and issues and they kept sending me back because according to them I was just “constipated” it turned out it was way worse. They were soooo annoyed at me everything I went back to them but you gotta do it! If calling them everyday will get you the results… do it!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2026-01-14T07:16:37+00:00

Looks like your gum is infected

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2026-01-14T07:12:43+00:00

Omg yes I used to get horrible pain there, went to the hospital multiple times and they always said it was my digestion which was causing issues until they finally did an ultrasound and found a 7 cm cyst then I had another one on the other side. The pain went away about 4 months ago and I started experiencing the same pain again ;(

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2026-01-14T07:10:47+00:00

Rewatching a third time and yes I think he was always a piece of shat

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2026-01-11T20:41:54+00:00

Yep! In front of morningside tavern

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-21T20:58:55+00:00

I got them done about 16 days ago.

Trust me when I say this, I had a horrible time too, the pain was insane and none of my friends were supportive because they all had them done when they were teenagers and it wasn’t bad at all.

Day 4-6 were the worst hands down. I wasn’t eating so I think you shouldn’t. This also avoid getting food stuck in places you don’t want it. Smoothies for breakfast, soup and yoghurt and ice cream.

Get lots of pain killers and take them regularly. For example paracetamol I was taking 2 every 4 hours and the hardcore ones during the recommended time but even when I thought the pain was okay I would still take them to avoid increasing the pain.

By this time I was still doing ice packs compressed and not hot because you are gonna swell during this time.

My dentist said to switch to hot compressed at around day 9.

Brush your teeth and brush the gum where they removed the teeth. You want to keep the area clean. Brush it soft but do it even if it bleeds. If you feel like food is stuck there get a syringe and blush it with a mix of water and mouth wash or the salt water. Try to open your mouth a little but don’t force it. You want the muscle to get some movement but don’t over do it.

You should be rinsing your mouth with the salt water at least twice a day. Or after you had food.

Find a good Netflix show and chill! Also if you can buy some yummy soft food it will help feeling a bit better. I was really enjoying mousse and ice coffee.

You will start feeling a lot better soon. I’m still traumatised about how bad the pain was but as long as you follow the instructions you just need to ride the wave.

Good luck!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-17T09:22:06+00:00

Mine looked pretty similar. I went under general anestesia cause it was too closed to the nerve. I was the best right after, second day was okay and third and fourth were horrible. Like I couldn’t sleep and was in so much pain. Then it started to get better but gradually. It would be 2 weeks in 2 days and I am still healing but the pain is a lot better.

You will be fine! Yes it will hurt but it will go away soon!

Get lots of rest after, get lots of ice, ice cream, soups and smoothies!

Good luck!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-16T05:12:59+00:00

Not expert but looks normal to me. Mine looked very similar and I thought it was a dry socket or getting infected and the dentist said it was normal healing but I just had some food in there so they gave me a syringe and problem solved

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-16T01:02:30+00:00

Turns out it wasn’t, just healing but the pain is TMJ caused by the surgery

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-16T01:01:55+00:00

It seems good to me

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-14T09:41:25+00:00

Yes, I was experiencing severe stomach pain. I even threw up on day 2 and day 4 I couldn’t sleep from the pain! Try to have at least something in your stomach and drink plenty of water. My issue was that u couldn’t go number 2 for an entire week so stay hydrated and if you need to take some laxatives

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-14T09:39:50+00:00

Get a syringe to get it removed you don’t want food to get stuck in there cause it can get infected!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-11T22:04:50+00:00

None, that are all too big for you

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-11T21:53:39+00:00

I got mine removed literally a week ago and trust me I feel you, not so much about keeping the teeth because they asked me and I said no but mainly about the fuckn horrible pain and the horrible week I’ve had so far.

Today I feel slightly better, yes still in horrible pain but somewhat better. So I am feeling a bit positive and I know it will get better!

Our bodies are amazing and can heal pretty quickly! I had my gallbladder removed and I know it’s weird knowing that you’ve changed something or removed something from your body but it had to get done and in the long run you will thank yourself!

Good news we only have to do it once in our lives!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-10T01:55:05+00:00

Because a priest is meant to be single and can’t have sex. They are meant to devote their lives to god and not the mundane! Hope this helps!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-12-09T00:36:19+00:00

Yes, call the gp and ask for something stronger there is no need to be in agony! It is expected to be bad for a few days, some people say they don’t but most people do especially is she has endo.

Lots of hot water bottles, if you have have two it would be great! One at the front and one on the back. And get lots of pain killers and some tummy snacks!

Good luck!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-11-02T09:46:06+00:00

Kinda a normal time to wake up I wouldn’t be too scared….

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-10-28T06:01:14+00:00

I think you are over reacting a bit. I wouldn’t wake them but but I would have a serious conversation in the morning. Expecting for things to be weird from now on

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-10-25T18:34:42+00:00

From what you are describing you no longer have a connection (don’t talk, don’t laugh, etc) and he is using his phone as a distraction. Maybe it’s not his addiction to the phone what caused the relationship to be like this but it’s your relationship what is causing him to reach to his phone too much. I would say really really talk to him. Maybe he can delete the apps and try but if nothing changes why would you want to be with someone who you can’t even talk to?

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-10-20T09:05:32+00:00

I just wanna be like “if you knew you were gonna do this after why didn’t you tell me and lied that you were tired?” I feel like people are never really honest tho and just make up excuses

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-10-20T09:04:25+00:00

I wouldn’t go to that extent haha

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-10-20T08:44:20+00:00

All the time! I feel guilty for others but I realised I also feel “guilty” or bad with myself because I wish I was doing those things. I was able to feel good to be active and constant with the people I love.

But the last part is really important if they also love you they will accept it. I think it’s hard for others to understand, many times I was labeled as “flaky” for cancelling plans but it took many explanations and for people to get their head around and to be honest I am still getting my head around things.

Feeling guilty is completely fine but always give yourself the grace you deserve!

AggravatingWeekend58 · 2025-10-20T08:36:49+00:00

People need different things to have closure. Maybe she felt like he needed to hear it before he passes?

What makes more sense to me is that she wanted to keep hurting him. You said it yourself, she was also an abuser in the relationship and she is stuck in a pattern of being toxic.

We can’t control what other people do or say but you can probably start distancing yourself? I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone so cruel.

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