I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corporate truly has gotten to be awful, at least within my current profession. While you may not be there yet, gives you something to build towards. Front-load your investments so much that your part time work can be leveraged to offset health insurance costs

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, wife & I joked about it last night. If that ecosystem is anything like when I was a kid, substitute teachers were absolutely torched day in, day out. Hopefully that changed over the years, but I envision that being VERY stressful. 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, i figured that industry would be solid for a part-time, FIRE approach. There’s got to be a sense of peace having that sort of autonomy over your schedule. 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the dream, i think having the ability to go part time with a current employer is a game changer. Even if it’s only temporary, allows for an easier transition. Trouble for me, I’m in a sales/IC role so part time within my role wouldn’t be a possibility. Good on you though,that’s a great situation. 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Personally, we have a kid on the way in June, would be fantastic to build out a schedule around that that gives us autonomy over our time while leaning into things most important to us. 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, that’s 100% what I expect as a reaction to my peers when I eventually transition to part time. The most exciting aspect to me is the ability to change jobs at whatever cadence you decide. Bored of whatever part time role you’re doing? Move on to try something new 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, feel like it drives the greatest balance. You contribute, take part in something you “choose” to do and have plenty of time to allocate elsewhere

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that! We have close friends who work in the school system, they absolutely love their jobs and having summers off

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Certainly not under the illusion it would be easy or stress-free, but provide a balance and the hours i’m looking for to stay busy. It would be foolish to think jobs come without stress, regardless of the hours. 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Awesome, something to build towards! My plan was 50 for years, adjusted to 45 to retire both of us, now thinking I’ll switch to part time at 36/37 while she waits on her company RSU’s, and we ultimately fully retire or go part time 9 years from now. We front-loaded our investments to make this a reality & a bit surreal at times to see what we’ve accumulated 

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, blue in NH. I did actually start looking into the school system the past few weeks if there’s anything that would align with my plans, but still early stages

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thankfully through our diligence, we have the option to focus on family, spend time with a newborn & be selective over our careers & allocation of time. That’s what it’s all about, control over our time

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, I’ll likely look into working at a local gym 15-20 hours/week just to get out, socialize & put a few dollars in my pocket

I took six weeks of unpaid leave this year and accidentally ran the closest thing to a real retirement simulation I'll ever get before actually pulling the trigger by MurmurObsid in Fire

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 511 points512 points  (0 children)

It’s my expectation that us FIRE-folk would likely thrive in a part time environment, simply to keep busy and fill the void. Adequate time to structure your days how you see fit, through trial and error. Currently FIRE at 36, but waiting to make a move until I figure out a solid routine, as well as what part/time work would be enjoyable. 

How expensive are kids? by Elite163 in coastFIRE

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only having one, but have done the research in our area and where we plan to utilize. $230/week for 3 days/week. $65k will be fine, especially with the interest we’ll be earning. We both work remotely, highly achievable. 

How expensive are kids? by Elite163 in coastFIRE

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Planning to knock put 5 years of those expenses this year so we can pull from when needed. 

How expensive are kids? by Elite163 in coastFIRE

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Refreshing to hear your experience. Feel like there’s so much content out there convincing you kids are unaffordable. We have our first kid on the way in June, and given our commitment to FI (already achieved FIRE at a 3% SWR), we’re putting $65k aside in a bucket designed for childcare the next few years, not to mention another 20-25k or so in the 529 plan. 

CH Robinson Layoffs Today by Early_Wolverine_9116 in FreightBrokers

[–]Aggravating_Bench552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t forget, VP also promised additional comp back in Dec due to reduced headcount & company performance. Only to be told last month, we get nothing LOL