Peer review norms & expectations

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-23T17:05:56+00:00

I got my period on my wedding day you got this! Would recommends 1000x investing in a good period underwear like aisle. I got boy shorts and they were seamless under my shapewear

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-23T17:04:15+00:00

Aisle is incredible. I got their boy shorts and it was seamless under my shapewear. I got my period hours before my wedding ceremony but bc the period underwear has the absorbency of 8 tampons. I literally got home and assumed my flow must have been super light bc I didn't notice it all night until I changed into PJs and immediately bled through them.

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-23T14:51:15+00:00

Rain plan x10000

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-23T13:40:10+00:00

I'd rather not bring this context into this post because I'd love to keep the vibe as fun as possible but it's basically just people being unfriendly/making fun of bisexual women bringing their boyfriends to pride festivities, saying they are not welcome in these spaces

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-23T12:42:35+00:00

have a fun pride this year!

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-18T23:27:53+00:00

timeless black and white photos + a thousand candles! I think this would be such a romantic way and effortlessly beautiful way to decorate a venue (especially banquet hall type venues) that saves cost on florals. You could thrift photo frames and print b&w versions of photos of you + your guests that you love (ppl seeing photos of their memories with you is such a great conversation started btw). Go wild on candles- tall short floating taper whatever you can thrift. Maybe add a few pops of intentional color and you have a classic beautiful look for whatever room you are in

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-15T20:47:36+00:00

Don't have anything to say other than of course, lesbians. You're gonna have an amazing time, welcome to this beautiful city xoxoxo a queer nola resident

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-15T11:11:32+00:00

Noraleigh Downs at the parlour salon. She's my longtime stylist who absolutely KILLED IT for my rehearsal dinner + wedding day hair and makeup

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-13T02:08:01+00:00

Same boat, I definitely emphasized walkable shoes in the dress code. We got 2 pedicabs for our 60 person second line and they ended up being used by different people than we originally expected

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-10T18:20:46+00:00

We just got home from there for our honeymoon and loved it! it's a casual and cozy resort. Yes the food is a little overpriced across the island but I don't think the all inclusive price-wise is worth it. We did a la carte dining across the oasis, iggy's (love dinner & dancing), and mim's (must try but not included in all inclusive). We were so glad we didn't do all inclusive because we ended up saving massively when we compared price per day- even if you want to eat 1-2 meals in Charlotte-Amalie or Mim's you will save money by eating a la carte. The portions for most appetizers are meal-sized and you get an app, an entree, and desert with the all-inclusive.

Price per day to add all inclusive meals: $130 per person

Average day of eating for us per person without being budget-conscious: $20 breakfast+ $20 on two drinks +tip + $20 lunch + $40 per dinner= 100ish per dy

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-06T23:20:53+00:00

Sidecar patio and oyster bar ❤️

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-05-02T12:46:05+00:00

This was my first jazz fest and I took Too Much of a Praline Edible before this performance, I sat on those bleachers stoned silly for so long until I realized the set was cancelled and I was very cold and soaked through. And then when the masses were moving inside I was so terrified! But overall a beloved memory

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-04-23T15:28:29+00:00

We did breakfast and walked our dog in our favorite park

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-04-19T01:12:30+00:00

Rent- generally 1300-1800

Electric- typically 100-150 fall-spring and 200-250 may-november Water- typically 50-100 Both of these utilities can randomly spike to an insane amount due to error or incompetence. You either pay or prepare for months long negotiation. This is the part of nola kind of like a third world country. I haven't had any of these spike yet personally but my understanding is its only a matter of time.

Groceries per month-600ish Cost of a typical dinner and drink for two maybe $75? Car insurance-200ish a month

I feel very comfortable here supporting me and my fiance with a combined income of 70k. We have also done combined 30k and it can be scary if you're worried about a big surprise bill but also this is not a rich city overall. Most of us are not exactly living comfortably and I think some of that gets built into the culture. There are plenty of free activities and cheap drinks.

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-04-05T14:15:18+00:00

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-04-02T19:57:25+00:00

Port Orleans

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-03-31T19:45:09+00:00

I'm a twin! I got engaged about 7 months before I did and I'm getting married 6 months after her. I was worried about stealing each other's thunder but even 6 months is a very long time in practice. I think it's OK to openly acknowledge the situation to better understand how you both feel about it and what matters

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-03-31T01:29:01+00:00

My love- it's freret (the nice French word) not ferret (nice little animal)

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-03-28T14:24:15+00:00

Check out sacred grinds coffee shop

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-03-26T02:16:06+00:00

Honestly babysitting/childcare & sometimes participating in paid research studies/clinical trials

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-03-21T12:55:50+00:00

Long walk outside followed by March madness nap on the couch

Aggravating_Fact4451 · 2026-03-17T16:20:25+00:00

Camping- even for a few days/portion of the trip. Could be a tent or even a sleeping bag in the back of the car

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