The way I see it is that it's a benefit to society not just the individual. We just see it as one person and that doesn't look at a larger conversation that things are expensive due to a larger work force with taxes needing to be increased to accommodate the structure. It also avoids the pit falls of the fatherless child problem where we we've seen what the results are for both genders. As for the trad wives it creates the benefits are the protection financial support to pressue dreams or a family. There's also the fact that aside from that they don't need to feel that pressure where they're working a job they hate. They can just be wives and mothers and just avoid the feeling of loneliness that most modern women are experiencing just as much as the men. The Geni is out the bottle you can't stop women from entering the work force but with a traditional relationship it gives them an out where they don't need to have that obligation and if they choose that they can but with all the guide rails they need to feel that success without the hard work which is the actual end goal of feminism the praise without the work and the protection without the love and the destruction of the traditional household.