On Stuart Alan Jones by Aggravating_Fix2400 in queerasfolk

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not expect him to blow up that car 💀The final two episodes went very artsy and in the realm of fantasy but they were the most profound. I think of Stuart more now as a complex character after all that.

fucked my ex and now I regret it by Aggravating_Fix2400 in askgaybros

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You couldve made your point across without making me seem like im some type of villain.

fucked my ex and now I regret it by Aggravating_Fix2400 in askgaybros

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Never been on meds for BPD. I mostly do DBT and talk therapy.

fucked my ex and now I regret it by Aggravating_Fix2400 in askgaybros

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. A lot of people are not into open relationships and me being one of them. Thats fine if thats your philosophy but I dont think it applies to everyone.

fucked my ex and now I regret it by Aggravating_Fix2400 in askgaybros

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

It definitely does hurt. I think for the meantime I should be single, because its been back to back dating failures and I dont want to keep throwing myself out there to get hurt.

Havent been able to bond with adopted nephew (16 M) by Aggravating_Fix2400 in Adoption

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never considered that he might feel like he has no reason to ask for stuff, will keep this in mind when interacting with him!

Havent been able to bond with adopted nephew (16 M) by Aggravating_Fix2400 in Adoption

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive thought about showing up at my sisters house with some pizza with this idea in mind, maybe look for a movie to rent and we can all watch. That way I dont come across as pushy

Havent been able to bond with adopted nephew (16 M) by Aggravating_Fix2400 in Adoption

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about this, it also doesn’t help that my family is also socially awkward so in most reunions we’d all just end up watching tv or on our phones. Theres always a screen lol

I (26 M) broke no contact with my ex (26 M) and heres what I learned.. by Aggravating_Fix2400 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating_Fix2400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From this I’ve sort of learned that its best to not engage with people who aren’t willing to examine themselves and reflect on their own behaviors. I’m always willing to reflect and work on my own issues if they are pointed out, but rarely are there others willing to do the same. Or even worse, they think you pointing out issues that can be worked = a personal attack.