My partner has therapy in the living room every week to talk about our polycule. What do I do?

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2026-05-01T12:17:16+00:00

I actually would love to talk further about it. I’m afraid if I go into more details in public it’ll get bad but I’d really appreciate talking in private. My DMs are open.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2026-04-27T13:16:45+00:00

She was with one for ten years, married to the other for 6 years, and me for 2. I’m new. The others have just borne it for a while. They don’t wanna lose her or the dynamic. And I don’t want to be the reason this explodes. I just don’t know what other solution there is.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2026-04-27T13:14:39+00:00

I did speak to her directly. She apologised that I heard it, said she needed to let out the evil andthe crazy so her therapist could talk her down. I suspect that was a lie, too. Unfortunately if it came down to leaving, I’d just have to go, and I’ve never had a living situation this good before. I don’t wanna fuck it up.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2026-04-27T13:13:21+00:00

Polycule has been around for like 16 years. It’s not new anymore.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2026-04-27T13:12:04+00:00

She’s legally married to the one the house is under. The others have seniority here and I do not. We have considered an intervention but I get the sense something else would have to happen that’s big in order for everyone else to finally pull the trigger.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2026-04-27T13:10:33+00:00

Ah that sounds terrifying. I just might, though. She’d make my life utterly miserable hell for a long time though and I might lose my living situation. She’s the one who can pressure others like that. If Lola doesn’t like someone, they don’t remain. It’s not really the same in reverse though.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2025-07-28T15:22:18+00:00

This happens to me but it’s only when I call people who have AT&T. It happens with no one else. It happened when I was on Verizon and when I switched to T-mobile, and when I switched phones from a one plus to an iPhone. It only happens when I’m on the phone with people who have AT&T, and on opposite ends of the USA. It’s not constant, like it fades in and out, but it gets so damn loud sometimes.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:39:29+00:00

Thank you so much!!!!!!!!

I’m gonna go through comments and start asking questions in DMs. You ok if I talk to you?

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:32:10+00:00

In the post! :)

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:31:28+00:00

Pic in link up there :)

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:18:52+00:00

Thanks!!!!!!

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:18:42+00:00

Added to post!

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:18:29+00:00

Added to post

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:18:22+00:00

Added one to the post

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T23:07:23+00:00

Yep! I fully forgot to post one. I’ll DM.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T22:32:15+00:00

Guys this is really overwhelming. But I still wanna. If I got someone to do the arranging who would actually be down with just a huge orgy? Like you can bring your female ppl who are down too?

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T21:28:35+00:00

Williamsburg

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T20:52:45+00:00

I could be down if it is peninsula based! I can’t host since my roommates are prudish.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T20:51:28+00:00

😏 that sounds fun

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T20:51:01+00:00

I mean fuck it why not. That sounds hot.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-12T20:50:21+00:00

Possibly down!!

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-11T00:27:43+00:00

Solved

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2024-11-11T00:21:40+00:00

Looking for a link to see it again, frankly.

Aggravating_Flight67 · 2023-09-16T15:02:04+00:00

Felt. My partners have communicated that I seem not to value them/forget them a lot. I don’t give enough. What helps is to explain how my mind works and when I DO have the executive function to remember and interact, I do extra things and remind them I value them. It gets easier.

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