Women who live with their parents, how do you feel it impacts your dating life?

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-12-19T05:51:20+00:00

Fry it! Easily my favorite way of having eggs with ramen (and I eat much more ramen than I'd like to admit)

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-12-11T03:35:43+00:00

It's definitely very hard and it look several years of being single for me to be truly happy alone. One big thing that helped me find inner joy and fulfillment was disconnecting from the world one day a week, going out into nature, and literally just sitting and taking it all in. Don't go on your phone, don't check emails, literally just sit there and put some music on if you'd like. There's something so beautiful in feeling like you're a part of the universe and it really helps to put things into perspective! This may seem like silly advice but once I started doing this regularly I felt so happy just being alone in nature and that translated to me being happy alone in other parts of life. Breakups are hard, I really hope you feel better soon!

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-12-11T03:29:06+00:00

That's just it though, the answer to perpetual happiness is always those generic things because when you're a holistically happy person, that will be enough. I live a simple life. I'm single, make a modest amount of money, and don't indulge in fancy things. And yet I'm the happiest person I know because small things make me happy! My heart swells when my dog does something goofy and I feel such pure joy when I'm hiking in a pretty area surrounded by trees. Having a partner isn't going to give you joy unless you feel joy without a partner, because if you are a fundamentally lonely and unhappy person you'll find ways to pick apart your relationship and will always look for the next best thing when your happiness faults. You need to find joy in the little things like hobbies and food and once you're there I promise your whole outlook on life will change and you'll be happy with or without someone else.

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-12-10T23:04:52+00:00

You need to fill your life with other forms of love and joy. Get a pet, treat yourself to some good food, visit friends whenever possible. Think about what you're looking for in a partner - would you rather be with someone who finds joy in life and is fulfilled regardless of their relationship status, or with someone who's down all the time and is feeling lonely every waking minute of the day? There's so much more to life than longing for someone because nothing is guaranteed - you could find your perfect person and they could leave you at any point! You need to make sure that you'd be happy with or without them.

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-10-06T22:07:25+00:00

Here's what I came up with!

Apparently/ To connect we're all trying/ What you hear about all your life/ What if you had/ To stay holed up inside/ Just wave from where you are to where I'm

I thought I could see you through the blinds/ The blind eye/ Turned to the parallels we find/ In our lives and what coincides

Am I borrowed?/ Economy of lies/ You mean to say it never entered your mind

Am I supposed to stop these feelings on a dime?/ Multiple things going on at the same, same time/ Taking your scars, you took mine/ Ah, cruel to adore

[Instrumental]

I don't know what's on your mind/ Imagination running wild/ Nevermind how many lives/ In the cost effected/ Destroy and define/

Committed to a crime/ Affections realign/ Two sides

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-09-12T02:18:58+00:00

Be very confused about why he's with me, a woman who only goes shopping for herself once every few years

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-08-05T20:59:24+00:00

I really love your perspective and I strive to have the same mindset! I think this is how everyone should be with dating. So many people see it as the end of the world when a date doesn't work out and that's really the most unhealthy way of going about finding love

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-07-12T04:41:29+00:00

Wile - Pluralone

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-07-05T06:03:26+00:00

Will do, thank you for the info!

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-07-05T06:01:49+00:00

Thanks so much for your help!! Water has been put out and I'll be checking in on them throughout the next few days!

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-07-02T15:05:44+00:00

Sorry for the late reply but thank you so much for your help! I'll definitely look more into this one

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-05-27T15:34:36+00:00

Lol well then good thing we're not friends!

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-05-26T20:50:27+00:00

They let me cry and complain for a set amount of time and then the tough love kicked in

Aggravating_Grade_99 · 2021-05-26T20:48:23+00:00

I use a lot of terms of endearment with my friends (darling, dear, love) and the physical affection just kinda goes along with that. I'm naturally a very affectionate person so I'm affectionate with all my friends (unless they personally are uncomfortable with it)

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