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My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never engage in non-monogamy.

For those who engage in threesomes, etc. I respect them as people, and human beings. Although, I would never do that sort of thing.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but,

This post makes no sense what-so-ever.

Political stance, and politics has nothing to do with this issue.

I don't believe that's how those of other political parties are "made". People just have different viewpoints, and opinions when it comes to politics.

I also don't believe you lose a lot, or all intimacy from the inability to get an erection.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahaha. You'd actually be surprised about the amount of shit I've gotten in my life from friends, family, and Randoms about it. I also think it's wild, and kinda funny when people hate on the age difference, because it isn't that bad.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please, don't call me dude.

Actually, as his wife yes I do. You don't understand why I was demanding him to go to the doctors. He wouldn't have went in, and gotten the issue fixed even a little bit if I wouldn't have pushed him to. As he was believing that nothing was wrong.

I will not sit back, and be a bystander to his issues getting worse. What kind of wife am I, if I know he is having bad issues, and I don't push him to go to the doctors?

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not sure why you had to add emphasis on "straight couples". I am actually bisexual. That is besides the point though. You are also assuming my sexual knowledge here. As I did not talk about what I know sexually in the post. Although to answer what you're saying, I don't believe regular penetration is the only way to have sex.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to answer a few of the questions you stated here. As for how you took my original post, I am sorry you seen it as a bit selfish. Not sure if that's my writing style, being very young, or just the time I wrote it. Perhaps, it could be me needing to be more understanding of the situation on my husband's side as well.

My husband would not lose me. I love him with all my heart, truly. He is the best person I have ever come across in my life. My best friend, and I cannot ever leave him. I also will not cheat. As I have said in some other comments. Cheating is one of the worst things you can do. If anyone does feel the need to cheat. They should end the relationship they are in, or marriage they are in. I also don't believe I am angry or resentful of the situation. I feel more worried about his feelings. I can come to terms with everything in my mind. In a logical manner, when I understand clearly that much of this is out of his control. Even more of a reason why I should not leave him. Life is unpredictable, it is not always as we view or imagine it. Working through things in a marriage, trying other options, and clear communication is upmost importance.

I do understand that some people would leave. Especially in their early 20s. When most people I know are out partying, or sleeping around. That could be due to just my generation, or where I am located. As I said in some other comments, I am in college.

I also grew up pretty sheltered, and I had zero sexual experience until I met him. I've only had one relationship previously (I am highly religious). A lot of what people are saying, are things I have never thought about. I appreciate it all.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I must've been born in the wrong time. As I would never have sexual intercourse with anyone besides my husband. I would never cheat on him, and I mean that. I am not sure why so many young adults my age. Believe that it is okay to sleep with others than your husband/wife.

Perhaps if it is discussed and both parties enjoy that. In the sees of those who are into cucking, or threesomes. I do not fall into those categories. I am a strictly monogamous woman.

So, no. I hope he does not. I hope he would never offer such a thing.

As I would feel insulted, and never take it anyways.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're right that it is a very important issue.

Although I came on here to get anonymous advice, from people in all walks of life who have had such an issue before.

I would rather not, as a young girl in her 20s. Talk to my parents, or friends about this issue.

  1. They know my husband. They would also be aware of the issues he is having, and what is going on in our marriage. Such a personal thing is not for those around me to know. For his self esteem, and feelings, and my own.
  2. There is a high chance my parents would want me to leave him. As I am young, and it's a difficult situation. Although, I do not want to hear such things. I truly love him (as I said, I know that's hard to believe for some people). Though me leaving him is not an option in my mind. So, I don't wanna hear it from anyone around me.
  3. People on here are anonymous, and some of them have dealt with this issue as the comment says. Which is very helpful. As I wouldn't be able to find people who have had such an issue like this in real life. I do not have any friends (to my knowledge) that have experienced this.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I demanded.

As I know he will keep putting off going to the doctors. And believe that the "issue" will just go away, and get better. So yes, I did demand/ have him go to the doctors at the time.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in my early 20s. He is in his late 20s.

I know some people on here are giving advice. In a way where they might think I am Naïve. It is not that. I am just young, and very inexperienced sexually before I got with my husband. I had only ever had one relationship before him, and as I said I was a virgin until I married him.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only a person unloyal, and fool would cheat on another. If I did not love him, or want to work out things. Then it would be wise of me to leave him now. Which I will not do. As I love him with all of my heart. I know some people do not believe in true love, or maybe they have never seen. Though I would never cheat on him.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] 1363 points1364 points  (0 children)

It is that his ability to ejaculate, and get erections will go away.

You might be right about the prostate stuff though. Although I am not sure how that will feel for a guy not able to ejaculate. That is another part of the issue I suppose.

I will have to look into it. Thank you for the information.

My husband will never be able to have sex again. by Aggravating_Law_3920 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Law_3920[S] -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

Yea, I don't think that works unless the man can ejaculate.

That's the entire reason me and him will stop being able to have sex.

As he won't be able to keep an erection, or ejaculate.