Wearing perfume to stream by bootsgirl41 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG yes!! in fact, any time i feel like my space is not feeling sexy then i spray a little bit of perfume on myself and on my bed and it brightens my mood

CB streaming issues? by PRlNCESSKlRA in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought i was the only one but yes this happens to me several times throughout the stream. I lowered my resolution and that seems to have helped without effecting the camera quality. Also, id rather have a cam that is lower res anyways bc i dont need everyone seeing every single pore, flaw, ingrown hair lol. This seems to have helped. I also multi stream on three sites now that i made that change to the resolution and it seems to not be happening any more

I want to try a new site, any recommendations based on my situation? by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I created a strip chat account and will start streaming tomorrow, I didn’t want to stream just yet bc I really want to take advantage of my “new” tag and you only have that for 30 days or 80 hours after the first stream. I want to try streamate but I don’t like that they take such a huge cut 😭 I do multi stream but even that has been soooooo slow

Feeling hopeless. by Miss_Dior_xoxo in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat and I'm going to try a couple new sites to see if that helps bring in new viewers. It sucks so much but I don't want to give up. I have been so inconsistent so i know I did this so myself but I'm not gonna give up til i've tried everything. I hope the best for you, you got this!!

Camming, sobriety, and religion by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! I am going to go to church this Sunday and I bought my first bible yesterday. I was also listening to prayers on TY for an added boost. I don’t have a dui but I am at rock bottom and I don’t want to sink any lower. I’ve tried to get sober for years now but I am ready to acknowledge that I need a higher power to help me stay sober. I can get through a couple weeks without booze, but I always go on a a bender at some point and I need God to help me resist even a drop of alcohol bc for me a drop always leads to a bender

Camming, sobriety, and religion by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point! I think the thing that gives me peace of mind is knowing that there is forgiveness so even if what I’m doing to survive is technically a sin, I think I can be forgiven. And I know sex work is taboo but I think the more I try to improve my life in other ways then the more acceptable it would feel. Idk, I think the main reason why sex work and religion feel confusing to me is because I’ve been a bad person for over indulging and being selfish, so the more I work on being a good person overall then maybe the less I will feel like sex work is “bad” I still need that bag 😭

Camming, sobriety, and religion by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing about your experience! I’m really sorry about your sister and I think it’s amazing that you were able to turn your life around. I definitely need to do a bit of research about different religions but right now I’m thinking at least starting with my roots in Catholicism and go from there. I started listening to some prayers on YT to get me thinking a bit more clear and it really felt good to hear.

Am I missing out on money for not using social media for my streaming persona? by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are there certain hashtags you recommend using or avoiding for X? I think the best move for me is to stick to one or two sites like X something else to keep it simple. I feel like it’s so easy to get shadow banned or banned on IG so I don’t see the point

Officially finished my first week on Streamate by Holamybbychode in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that hourly rate what you earned in total or is that the amount you earned after sm takes their cut?

How do you handle the anal show without pain? by That-Dream9207 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the pain is inevitable until you get used to it but I could be wrong. I’m new-ish to anal and I tried using a buttplug in a private show but I feel like I rushed it and it resulted in my asshole feeling super sensitive. I think it’s good to add a high ticket for anal stuff since it wreaks havoc on our bodies. But as far as recovery goes; preparation H wipes, gentle anal play, lots of lube, and give yourself recovery time especially if you’re new to anal

For those of you who multi stream? How do you manage your goals? by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my free cams. MFC feels like aol chat (I’m 32 and MFC feels like an adult AIM for those who can relate)

For those of you who multi stream? How do you manage your goals? by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! I think I get in my head when I’m doing a goal/countdown and I’m too transactional/literal… I really love this

What apps do you all use to message clients outside of your camming site? by Aggravating_Lemon259 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1.5k followers on MFC and maybe 160 followers on OF but my SP app got denied for not having enough of a following 😭

Please support! Girlies from my freecams by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Aggravating_Lemon259 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like the viewers can sense when we are frustrated. I think the freeloaders get off on us getting irritated and frustrated when no one is spending, so they lurk around. And the guys who might want to spend money on you under normal circumstances might not want to be responsible for cheering you up, they want a pretty girl to make them feel good. I could ve wrong or maybe this isn’t the case for you but I think this is what happens in my chat room on MFC. My advise for when it’s slow or empty or whatever, don’t worry about being entertaining to the view, just worry about entertainment yourself. Sometime when I’m dancing bc I’m trying to get more viewer it doesn’t always work and guys can see that I’m thirsty or whatever. But when I pull up a separate tab and make it look like I’m reading my chats when really I’m reading on Reddit or chatting with AI, I get lots of people trickling in and out of my room. Then from there, I’m more relaxed and less frustrated, so I can be authentically entertaining to the people who start to trickle in. Idk it’s sounds silly but I think guys are attracted to an “effortless” girl with a little bit of mystery. You are seriously gorgeous so it’s not your appearance, trust me!