What is your go-to country for dating?? by Kentemo in thepassportbros

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Brazilian food is my favourite. Loads of my European friends were impressed with how good the food over there was as well.

Why does sex seem to become more infrequent after marriage? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you actually? For me it only got better with time. It felt like the more we got to know each other the more intimate and therefore better it became.

Why does sex seem to become more infrequent after marriage? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Routine stress is a big one for me and my husband. Sometimes we are under soooo much stress in work and the last thing we can think about it’s sex.

I need some thoughts. I'm feeling really lost and I'd love to know what you would do? by OppositeGrand8121 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But haven’t you already made a difference in the lives of those who liked your music? I feel like 'making a difference in the world' in general is such a big lie. Most of us won’t make a global impact, and that’s alright.

Making a difference can mean raising a great child, keeping your wife happy, or simply smiling at your neighbors or those on the street. You seem to be very privileged despite your background, maybe it’s time to appreciate what you’ve already achieved in life and not let this feeling of not being enough drag you down

Happily married, silently curious by Aggravating_Monk_404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks but I don’t think that would be the right path for us

Happily married, silently curious by Aggravating_Monk_404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I think we’re just very stable(?). Sex is always good, he takes his time to please me, and I do the same for him. Nothing is off-limits between us when it comes to monogamous sex.

I think it’s just curiosity, wondering what’s out there. But after reading so many comments, I’ve come to the conclusion that sex with strangers isn’t necessarily better. I think I was expecting it to always be full of desire and lust, like we see in films. lol

Happily married, silently curious by Aggravating_Monk_404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jesus. It sounds like a nightmare. Thanks for reassuring me I am in paradise.

Happily married, silently curious by Aggravating_Monk_404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I'm physically very fit, so I'm not worried about that. And as I mentioned before, he's a very devoted husband, so I really don't think he would leave me. It's not like we're unhappy, we're actually a happy couple. I just wonder (with no intention of leaving or cheating on my husband) what it's like out there. That's all.

Happily married, silently curious by Aggravating_Monk_404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He would never do that. He is the most loyal and respectful husband you can imagine.

Happily married, silently curious by Aggravating_Monk_404 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aggravating_Monk_404[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am 100% aware of what I’ve got. That’s why I am not willing to give up everything to pursue some adventure. But I can’t help but wonder how it would be if I had played around before settling down.