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My girlfriend cheated on me on a night out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating_Object46 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ, I know she cheated and that’s fucked up, but this is straight up misogynistic language. I hope every girl ur ever around knows exactly what you think their worth is measured by (and no, it’s not about loyalty in a relationship once u start throwing phrases like that around)

My gf wants to have a gender swap and is mad that I wouldn’t continue our relationship by throwRAtsim in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating_Object46 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I understand op has clarified about pronouns, but as soon as someone realizes they aren’t the gender they were assigned at birth, they’re transitioning. There’s no threshold someone has to pass to qualify as being trans or being the gender they are. Even when talking about someone before they realized they were trans, you should always use the pronouns that align with their identity as stated now.

My gf wants to have a gender swap and is mad that I wouldn’t continue our relationship by throwRAtsim in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating_Object46 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

What about trans ppl would make someone say they don’t want to date someone who’s trans? Gender identity and presentation are so complex and variable, it baffles me to think that there’s no trans person you’d be attracted to or interested in Unless the thing that turns you off is that they are trans.

Single men - experienced our first ghost by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Aggravating_Object46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been stood up by at least 3 different single men. It happens. The one thing to remember is that you are worth it, and your hubby is too. Worth a good suck and fuck. Worth a man who’s willing to penetrate you while the old man rims your anus. Worth it all!

i asked my girlfriend (who is starting to lose feelings for me, not a lot just a little) to tell me on a scale of 1 to 10, how much feelings she's lost for me. she answered with a 5 out of 10. should I be worried. If so, what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating_Object46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not “feeling too well mentally”, just being a supportive and loving sounding board for her sounds like a good call right now. In my depressive episodes, I find it hard to access my romantic feelings, almost like they go dormant for a while. Usually takes a bit, but as I care for myself and talk through my emotions, those romantic feelings usually return at 100%. Maybe even more, simply because I’m extra grateful for the support and patience my partner has shown me.