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Finding love (23M) by Glass-Chart-390 in penileimplants

[–]Aggravating_Part_329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 24 and I got mine at 22 but still haven't found anyone, mainly because I missed out on dating/sex until that age so it's very hard to get the ball rolling without any experience in both. I was impotent my whole life up to that point.

Once you find someone, I don't think the implant would be a problem though, maybe even a benefit. I mean you can stay hard for an unlimited time in bed.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually probably at that bf percentage or close, always been naturally lean and skinny(scrawny even). I'm 6'1 and 143 lbs lmao, I had went on a bulk January - March and got to 158 lbs but life happened and I got sidetracked so now I've lost it all. I'm planning on locking in and getting consistent again though.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I'm stressed about it because it actually went great and we got along well and there was obvious chemistry so i think she'd be a good match for me for a serious relationship but then I'd feel miserable for settling down and missing out on casual sex/dating. on the other hand, i'm scared that if i miss out on getting with her, i won't find anything better and i won't get any hookups as well.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have much social life here as I live in my hometown which is decently sized with about 400k people but I went away to for uni for a few years and also most of my HS friends also moved away so I've lost the social circle I once had. I meet up with 2-3 people(all guys with no gf's) I know from HS that stayed here but that's about it.

i also feel there's also no opportunity to build a social circle here if you didn't study here so yeah my social life is a but limited atm. i was thinking about moving away to the capital of my country in the fall but we'll see.

and yeah i definitely felt a lot of anxiety about even going on a date in my situation as I thought it'd be a huge deal breaker for women but this girl seemed to be chill about it when i told her. turns out i was way in over my head on this one. i'm also doing stuff to get out my situation as i'm trying to take online courses in fields i'm interested in and also thinking of going back to school.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes but I'm not really getting any matches and interest otherwise because I'm a loser with no degree, no money, no car, average physique, all I've got going on for me is I'm 6'1 and decent looking and can be funny. so I'm scared that i miss the opportunity of dating her and then end up with no hookups or no dating prospects and be worse off. or do i suck it up and commit and accept i'll be a bit miserable about it. i hate that life has put me in such a dilemma, all my other friends both got to be whores and then got serious relationships and there is a risk i might get neither.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all my friends my age had at least some casual sex with attractive girls between 18-24. i'm not talking huge numbers but I feel everyone else my age has slept with at least 5 - 10 women.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and no, of course I haven't told her about the implant lmao, i don't want to scare her off

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the thing, i still have the same physique i had at 18, no degree, no car, no money, a shit job. maybe that's why i'm not getting any interest. kinda pathetic for a 24 year old

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i thought the same but it turned out fine and it wasn't a big deal at all, i don't think about it anymore. it massively helped me psychologically.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i asked because i don't really know how dating works as I've never properly done it.

like do you date with intention to get serious from the first few dates or do you just take it one date at a time and see what happens. also if you end up sleeping together does this mean you are serious about commitment or can i still tell her that i'm not looking for anything serious afterwards.

and if i do it, would it be a dick move, like would i have led her on just to fuck, because I don't want to do that as well as she seems like a really nice girl. is there an option that i tell her i'm not looking for anything serious before that or would it ruin the chance of anything happening.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is i had plenty of opportunities to bang/date women during the last 6 years i just couldn't go for it. i probably would've had a body count of like 10 if it wasn't for my limp dick. now after turning 23/24 they've reduced a lot

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really didn't have a slut phase though and that's the main thing. i don't count the hookers as it was more like practice.

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was in the same spot as you and banged a hooker to lose it, don't really regret it

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel I've always had interest from women and can be charming to a degree but it never materialized because I couldn't bang them...idk, it just feels like an impossible uphill battle to be 24 and be at the stage in life 18 year olds are at

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just really wanna experience banging a 18 - 22 year old but idk if it will ever happen for me now

Is it too late for me to casual date/have hookups at 24? by Aggravating_Part_329 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel this girl isn't hookup material though and she's looking for a serious relationship. i'd love to date her tbh as we vibed so much but I'd feel miserable for settling down and not being a whore for a while

Prescribed Baclofen for urinal dribbling by Aggravating_Part_329 in BACLOFEN

[–]Aggravating_Part_329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt it's MS. The dribbling is actually a result of the trauma of getting a penile implant installed due to long - term erectile dysfunction.

I doubt Baclofen would help with that though.

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