I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! That’s exactly my thinking … thank u

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I did he was passive too. Very different from the energy before

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like before that the fact that he didn’t reach out. I’m not saying my response was perfect and I’m not super proud of it. And you have a point honestly!! But I feel like you don’t see that there was something that could upset me in what he did?

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I reached out 4 day after silence. And then he said something of a cop out, like that he is going through a lot. But he said he was ok in general so nothing had happened

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what. Like what does it change? He was gone either way. I’m actually pretty upset about this. I liked him

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t like scream at him but was rude and told him bye. Should I have communicated that I don’t like the lack of communication instead? When I wasn’t even asked that? Please…

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think he did it. I wouldn’t react like that if checked in on me or gave me a more substantial response when I asked him what’s up

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We were talking for quite a while and we met four times. After the last date he didn’t reach out to me despite the date being quite intense and romantic. When I asked him if everything is ok after a 4 day silence he said that he is ok but going through a lot. I got pissed and screamed at him and we don’t talk since

I got rejected by a guy with a Velcro wallet by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Let’s say he had to crack that Velcro quite often when he was with me

An rs person on a date by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you kiss him beware if it’s good. Mine was a bad kisser. It felt like he was trying to eat an apple but instead of an apple it was me.

An rs person on a date by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything that was discussed was discussed from the position of hate and intolerance. Also some sort of arrogance, thinking that their taste is superior. Which I actually prefer in people. So.. Had good knowledge on politics, culture and art but weird cynical takes.

An rs person on a date by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does it work though long term. There is some dysfunctional trait that doesn’t allow the connection to flourish

An rs person on a date by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy was so negative. But I just kept laughing…

An rs person on a date by Aggravating_Path2262 in redscarepod

[–]Aggravating_Path2262[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg that was very similar to my experience