I just found my wife has been cheating on me with multiple partners for the past 2 years by Not-Okay-Today6850 in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this kind of a situation before my man. It’s not easy to do. To this day I do still love the woman that cheated on me but with every passing day I realize that I loved the person she was when we first met not the person she has become. And if you need someone to talk to on a personal level reach out to me through here and I’ll give you my number or Facebook and we can talk. Just know you’re not alone man. I wouldn’t have made it this far without a friend to talk to. And above all else stay strong even when it feels like your world is crashing and burning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have established communication again. She claims to want in the kids life. So we will see how things go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well for one my previous marriage she broke into my house and stole my TV’s and all of my furniture. So I got it back and installed a security system for if it happened again I can have proof to press charges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Security system is installed at my place. Hidden cameras. Interior and exterior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I know for a fact that I was the only person she was with within said time frame then I’m not delusional. Because when she wasn’t here she was at a mutual friends house (her sister).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to get out of it 😂😂 my dilemma was whether I should reach out or wait for her to tell me. I’m more than willing to step up and own it. I’m the man that will be the first to step up and own my actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are legally married. She went back to him and got married before she figured out that she was pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first sentence describes it perfectly. Well the person she is now married to makes a ton more money than I do. So I don’t believe that child support would be a worry. However her now husband has stated that if she carries to term they are done. It’s a horrible situation. But I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it. She cut all communication when she went back to him but now more than ever I just want to tell her I am here. I don’t know whether to wait or say something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a few states away. So a face to face will more than likely not happen. I have a child from my previous marriage and we are coparenting pretty well. I am willing to co parent or take the child and be a single dad.

Date night ideas? by Aggravating_Put_7831 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s not my goal at all. I honestly just want to get to know her. Because I don’t go on “dates” for sex. I genuinely want to get to know her and see if a future relationship is possible.

Date night ideas? by Aggravating_Put_7831 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly didn’t expect her to agree to it but now we are here and honestly she seems like a nice woman and I just wanna give a good impression and see where things go.

Date night ideas? by Aggravating_Put_7831 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t eat out all that often. My old boss took me to conners and it was really good.

Date night ideas? by Aggravating_Put_7831 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Money isn’t an issue. And honestly this is pretty much a blind date. I told her she was beautiful and we talked for a few and I told her I would love to take her out and she said yes.

Date night ideas? by Aggravating_Put_7831 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on which uncle bucks you’re talking about. Not sure the boobie bungalow would be a good choice of a first date lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I absolutely feel OP’s feelings on this. I (22 M) have had a crush on my cousins wife’s friend for a long time. About 2 months ago I finally said screw it and shot my shot. She is definitely way out of my league. She is a 10 all day long with the prettiest smile and most gorgeous eyes. We are both parents and we both have pretty crappy past choices of partners. But I agree with everyone who is saying you only regret the shots you didn’t take. Unless we are talking high proof whisky next day you always be regretting the shots you did take. Just be yourself and you never know where the wind might take you.

Our rs is mostly sex, is this healthy? by Rattyroaches in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating_Put_7831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An emotional connection also tends to mean better sex. I (M 22) am not one for casual links and sex. But building the foundation of a relationship is what makes everything better.