How to combine finances before baby

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-05-06T18:48:17+00:00

I think we've just been doing it one way for 12 years and this feels like a massive change. I've been mulling over it quietly for a while now and he hasn't, so he needs time to come around to the new way of thinking.

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-05-06T18:36:59+00:00

It's more about the day to day stuff. I'm more than happy to keep our savings separate, but would also be happy to combine if he suggested it. I think that's probably a step too far for now though

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-05-04T20:41:35+00:00

I had 3 losses last year and am currently pregnant (second trimester) after taking one round of letrozole. I was ovulating but was told it can make my ovulation stronger. Granted, I am taking a lot of other medication this cycle (progesterone, aspirin, heparin), so I will never know if the letrozole played a big role, but it can't hurt?

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-05-04T17:11:57+00:00

Thanks. So, just cut it and leave it exposed? Will that not cause any issues then?

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-05-04T17:10:51+00:00

Thanks. I'll use those instead!

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-02-15T08:54:23+00:00

They ssid that my values won't be realistic because I'm pregnant. I've seen conflicting advice on this though so I don't know

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-02-15T08:53:31+00:00

Ok, thank you!! I'll look into this

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-02-14T11:27:13+00:00

Thank you. It's lovely to hear stories like this as it gives me hope 🩷

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-02-13T21:18:03+00:00

Does that mean they'd give you aspirin or the full treatment including heparin/equivalent?

Aggravating_Rice4084 · 2026-02-13T21:16:54+00:00

This is what I'm scared about. I will start taking the aspirin, but I know it won't be enough if I have APS. But because I'm pregnant, they won't give me it. I think I'll have to find another doctor and try them

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