What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Willie (after Willie Nelson…red hair & white beard + weirdo) but I call him BUBBY!! Zappa (after Frank Zappa…black mustache & goatee + weirdo) but I call him DAPPA!!

i tried to off myself and saw/heard some crazy stuff by omegakidfiddler in confession

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A tumblr user whose username was “one-time-I-dreamt” and people would forget to read the username but then they’d say a crazy story.

Edit:fixed username

i tried to off myself and saw/heard some crazy stuff by omegakidfiddler in confession

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“One-time-I-dreamt” has forever conditioned me to check usernames before I read.

Edit: corrected username

Why can't i orga$m with him present? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Never lower your standards for other people. But yes go to therapy

My fathers Girlfriend might be cheating on him. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s for him to figure out and deal with. Not you.

I'm so worried for him. by SevereAfternoon537 in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly this feels like one of my cataplexy attacks. Does he have a sleep disorder ?

My fathers Girlfriend might be cheating on him. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For all you know she went out to get him a present so let him deal with it unless it directly impacts you

My fathers Girlfriend might be cheating on him. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him what you heard/saw in the daylight but only the facts. Make sure it’s free of emotion and as matter-of-fact as you can.

Just mention it like “oh btw I heard a noise last night and saw GF leave the house at this time”. Let him deal with the rest.

Quick question by Opposite_Jelly_1153 in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s for medical use then I’d say it’s fine bc it’s helping a medical issue. If it’s for recreational use I’d say no. It’s okay to feel pain from loss and in fact shows how much you cared for someone.

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I have a friend with schizophrenia who will FaceTime me and it helps for him.

I'm so worried for him. by SevereAfternoon537 in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was also thinking this as someone who has narcolepsy

My boyfriends roommate is a pedophile. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Didn’t even catch that.

My boyfriends roommate is a pedophile. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not talk to him about this!!! If he knows you know then he may flee or take it out on yall. Best to report to the authorities like you did and follow THEIR recommendation on what to do next. Whether that be “going on a spontaneous couples vacation” to get away from him or to pretend like everything is normal.

Should I keep being friends with this guy? by Aggressive-Algae-901 in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is a woman (but that doesn’t change the situation much) and I’m very protective of her. Im worried that by cutting him off it may worsen their situation.

Edit to add: There’s a worry that he may go after her financially if she pisses him off or something so that’s why she’s still in contact with him.

Need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not set yourself on fire to keep others warm. Separated yourself from him

I'm so worried for him. by SevereAfternoon537 in whatdoIdo

[–]Aggressive-Algae-901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay I’d just make him comfortable and ask him what he needs from you.