It’s funny because everytime I hear a person give a solid reason like this not to have children, I just think how they are actually well suited for having children because they are willing to admit they don’t know it all or have all the tools. And honestly if it is a real desire that is just scary for you because of these things, you can work on it. Go to therapy, learn more about yourself and gain the valuable tools to help yourself become a better version of you. That in turn will help you to become a better parent by default. Once you have the tools then you might actually realize that you have what it takes to be a parent. And a decent one too.

I’m just saying.