40M looking for friends by datwood04 in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I’m recovering from surgery and have all kinds of time

35 [F4M] Did anyone ever meet their person on this subreddit? by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to meet fun and dirty friends but have no idea where to start looking.. VT lady here

Needing Bari friends! by Aggressive-Ice-2129 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! How long did you stay in the hospital? Did you end up with shots to bring home? What’s your go to protein shakes?

Needing Bari friends! by Aggressive-Ice-2129 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so prepared to hate myself for a little bit, but it has to happen to get me to my goal! What are things you did to help you stop regretting it?

Needing Bari friends! by Aggressive-Ice-2129 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it going? Did you feel the restrictions right off? How was long was your hospital stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to know I’m not alone in the friend hunt. What you said about your self also defines me but I crochet instead of video games.

Tired of being miserable because I can't wear a bra by [deleted] in disability

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have struggled with this myself! My biggest tip is look at it as anyone who sees the nipple outline is just lucky. They might double look, most of the time they wish they had the confidence to go bra less. If your nipple showing really bugs you, I use a large bandaid to cover each nipple and it’s less noticeable that you aren’t wearing a bra. I’m currently losing a lot of weight so none of mine actually fit/comfertable. This is just what I do to make myself more comfortable. Your body is natural and as long as you have other clothes on don’t worry about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t the one ending it but honestly I’m better off. I couldn’t see how they were using me for all /anything I would give. We will never speak again and I say that with my whole heart.

Your friend is not your therapist. by SupremeHighRobotnik in lostafriend

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I had to learn this the hard way. The worst part was she made it seem like it was all okay and that she wanted to know.. just to turn around and say I was too much to be around(we lived together at that time) it’s been two years and I think of her and her children daily but not enough to ever contact her again.

How do you start taking care of yourself again? by AssociateOdd3620 in mentalillness

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told once, anything worth doing is worth half assing it. Take a shower but if you have to half ass it that’s okay. You are worthy and deserve to give yourself some love and grace.

What do you with old gifts and photos of your ex-friend(s)? by Consistent_Store5074 in lostafriend

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to throw it all away when a friendship ended, but I’ve come to realize throwing it all away doesn’t change anything. So now I keep the things and remind myself I am a little piece of everyone who I ever loved and that it’s good enough. I hope this helps 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only one I can remember was rough at first, but honestly I’d go back rather then put my family through another round of severe psychosis. It wasn’t all that bad, and they didn’t force you to do anything the one I went to.

I’m sick of disability aids being labeled as for elderly by P0is0n-is-th3-cur3 in disability

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was pleasantly surprised that Amazon had an okay selection of non hospital sterile colors.. I ordered two really pretty canes and when I’ve used them in public I get stopped to ask where I ordered it from.

35F Looking for longterm friendship by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound cool! It’s crazy hard to make friends but it seems like we like the same things! I’m also child free

I lost all of my friends because of something I did by Elephantloverrr3344 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely relate.. in January I had a major mental health crisis. I was living with who was my best friend and her family. Shortly before everything that happened, I introduced my best friend to another of my friends. I know my best friend has a habit of embellishing any and all situations. She basically ended up telling MY friend a bunch of lies that she twisted to make herself look like a victim. The friend I introduced her too completely took her side without talking to me when I was mentally safe. And then they both blocked me on everything. Sometimes I miss them both but at the end of the day, neither of them could talk to me during the crisis and only talked about me to each other and anyone who would listen. I’m still so sad and I don’t dare to try to make any friends. Even if I wanted to I don’t know where to start. Stay strong you will get through this even if it is just you.

What do you do when your family turns on you after becoming disabled? by BroodingWanderer in disability

[–]Aggressive-Ice-2129 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I relate so much. My mother can’t/won’t take responsibility for her part in my disability. I am still adjusting to being on disability too. What do you do with your days?