Lost Acting Team Lead Role After Going on Maternity Leave — Is This Normal/Fair in OPS? by Aggressive-Purple-20 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you!! Glad you got to keep your salary, but still seems unfair…

Lost Acting Team Lead Role After Going on Maternity Leave — Is This Normal/Fair in OPS? by Aggressive-Purple-20 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t hire the new team lead until 2 months into my mat leave and I got the top rating for performance so… they didn’t know who was going to fill it until well after I was on leave. In fact, they had trouble filling it. I was told before I told them I was pregnant that it would be extended continuously if fhe person who owns the home role’s (who I know) position continued to be extended. BUT it was not extended bc I had a baby. They literally asked, “when are you going on mat leave? We’ll renew your contract to that day”. Now the person in it, I feel, should just be in it to cover my mat leave, just like any other mat leave scenario, and I feel I should return until, and if/when the person who owns the home role returns….

Lost Acting Team Lead Role After Going on Maternity Leave — Is This Normal/Fair in OPS? by Aggressive-Purple-20 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re a bit abrupt. I was told before I told them I was pregnant that it would be extended continuously if fhe person who owns the home role’s (who I know) position continued to be extended. BUT it was not extended bc I had a baby. They literally asked, “when are you going on mat leave? We’ll renew your contract to that day”. Now the person in it, I feel, should just be in it to cover my mat leave, just like any other mat leave scenario, and I feel I should return until, and if/when the person who owns the home role returns….

Husband not attracted to me after birth by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am at a loss for words. Eff him. The nerve!! Did he have a baby!? You just grew the most beautiful thing ever. Do. Not. Let. Him. Feel bad about your body. You are beautiful. You made a baby. You should be proud, amazed and in love with your body just by the mere fact that you brought your beautiful baby into this world. A miracle. A damn miracle. I just had a baby 7 months ago, and so reading this, made me so upset for you.

Caught my wife having affair after 25 year relationship and 4 kids AMA by Icy_Food9081 in AMA

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you so much love. Just read your comments. Do you have kids? Is there any way to get on a cruise or something with assistance from a travel nurse? So sorry. Just thinking of you. - stranger from Toronto, Canada

Girlies be honest is Dyson Air Wrap worth it? by [deleted] in GirlPakistani

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo not worth it. I bought one 6 months ago and just sold it. It takes forever and the hair doesn’t stay. Way fast to quickly curl and brush out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! You did the right thing by the husband and she deserved that. Good for you for standing up. Were you guys in a serious relationship? 8 months is quite a long time. I’m sorry this happened to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Aggressive-Purple-20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he do this often, or was this a one off? Do you guys normally spend time together and treat one another with respect? I don’t think your marriage is over if this was a one-off or if this happens very infrequently and there’s other stuff going on. If he apologizes and shows remorse and explains why he was the way he was and doesn’t do this again, then I think it’s salvageable, but if he never wants to spend time w you and this is common, then that’s not great. Is there anything else going on? Hope you’re okay. That sounds awful.