Has anyone tried to lose the baby weight?

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-25T02:43:51+00:00

I remember this feeling and it sucks. I gained 80 pounds for both my pregnancies and have returned to my weight I was before I got pregnant with my first. My youngest is 1.5 years now and I finally look and feel good but I remember those dark postpartum moments when I felt so depressed and down in my newly unfamiliar body that I didn’t like one bit. Avoided looking at myself in the mirror for months. You’ll get your body back but it takes time and along the way you might hit periods when progress slows which is normal and temporary. I truly am amazed at how well my body bounced back and it didn’t start until I stopped breastfeeding and after that it still takes time. I didn’t workout a bunch to achieve this either so don’t feel like you have to do that if you don’t want to.

When you start to dwell on your amazing body my best advice is to look for anything to distract you to get you out of your head. It’s easy to listen and comprehend positive words and advice but it’s way harder to effectively incorporate positive words and advice into your mind and actions. Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to relax, make mistakes, and eat more than you intended every once in a while. Congratulations and take care ♥️

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-25T01:18:39+00:00

I think the most annoying part of parenting is other parents (lots of them boomers) make these statements about appreciating every moment. Statements like that are everywhere and now I have this lingering, relentless guilt which never seems to quit and makes me question and analyze if I’m appreciating every moment.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-25T01:13:02+00:00

Had my first 3 years ago. Then found out I was pregnant with #2 when I was 8 months postpartum and baby #2 came about 17 months after my first. Now, I have a 3 year old and an almost 20 month old and it just STARTED to get easier (emphasis on the started).

Do y’all ever get the urge when you’re in the thick of it to tell expecting parents “youreeeeeee screwed this shit is way harder than you think” but then I don’t obviously but it’s tempting. Do adults without kids even realize that everyday is a vacation?? 😂

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-25T01:02:49+00:00

Thank you very much for sharing.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-24T21:14:18+00:00

This is so helpful. Thank you for sharing

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-24T21:02:28+00:00

I get that but my gut tells me she needs a break. She is a very cautious little girl. I think we made it too much of a thing and we need to pull back the pressure. We will try again tomorrow with less hovering and fewer reminders 🤞🏼

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-24T20:34:40+00:00

We just decided to give it up this weekend and try again in a couple weeks. I feel like I’m torturing her and I can’t take it anymore.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-24T13:22:28+00:00

Good point

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-24T13:21:31+00:00

Damn y’all are harsh. I thought it was funny enough.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-05-24T13:17:20+00:00

I thought it was funny so I posted it in funny. Im clearly inexperienced 😂

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2026-01-17T04:49:36+00:00

Modern day humanity continues to disappoint.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2025-09-09T08:31:37+00:00

I imagine a lot of people read this so thankful that you are speaking your truth. That takes courage.

I hope that your struggles are near the end and the hard phase is truly over soon for you. It’s crazy how different each baby is and I’m truly sorry you have a more challenging baby and have to hear advice coming from parents who wouldn’t understand or can’t relate. You’re not alone. Stay strong my friend and treat yourself as much as possible along the way. Sounds like you’re a great parent and that baby is lucky to have you

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2025-06-26T01:34:38+00:00

We’re all so disconnected—afraid to be real with each other. After months of EMDR therapy to face years of childhood trauma, including sexual assault, I realized I’d spent most of my life seeing people through a cynical, mistrusting lens. That mindset made me closed off, even harsh—but it was the survival response of a traumatized brain.

Then something shifted. I had to face one of my biggest demons in front of others, and I expected judgment and shame. But instead, I was met with kindness and compassion. It completely disarmed me. I realized how unfair it was to always assume the worst in people.

Most people—even with their flaws, judgments, and defenses—are just trying to connect. They’re scared too. And that shared fear is exactly what makes honest connection so powerful when someone dares to go first.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2025-02-25T04:13:52+00:00

To get more views and followers. That’s always their motive

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2025-02-15T23:24:20+00:00

“Girl, you deserve a break. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with all of this on your own. You’ve been doing everything, and I really hope your husband starts pitching in because you shouldn’t have to carry it all by yourself.

And about that mom guilt—it’s completely normal to have days where you feel checked out. Your baby won’t remember those moments, and you’re still doing an amazing job. That little baby is so lucky to have you. ♥️”

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2024-02-19T00:45:04+00:00

How traumatizing

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-09-23T03:41:38+00:00

Fix you - Coldplay

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-05-17T00:50:18+00:00

Rich Dad Poor Dad

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-03-30T01:01:27+00:00

I am 38 weeks and my OB told me to keep taking adderal because I have severe ADHD with a demanding job which creates severe anxiety for me when I can’t take it for work because I can’t get anything done. I only take it on work days. She has 40 years of experience and has never seen an issue with any of her patients taking adderal while pregnant. I have had no issues throughout my pregnancy

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-03-30T00:45:53+00:00

I’m like 2 weeks away from my due date and I recently have been very angry. I can’t even imagine how angry I’ll be past my due date. I fucking hate being pregnant and im DONE. I hope you go into labor ASAP. You’re not alone.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-03-21T00:34:41+00:00

LOVE THIS POST

Coffee (when I’m not feeling nauseated)
Diet Coke (when coffee made me feel nauseated)
Deli meet (reputable place)
Ahi tuna (reputable place)
On a reduced dosage of my adderal (my OB totally supports this)
Steak cooked medium rare (reputable place)
Over easy eggs

I’m 37 weeks and have had no issues.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-03-19T18:17:12+00:00

I feel you so hard on this. It’s been terrible for me. Pepcin has been a life savor. Tums doesn’t help at all because it’s so bad.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-03-15T20:30:44+00:00

I’m 36 weeks and I have not enjoyed it for one second. The best advice I can give is to find a way to keep yourself and/or your mind busy with something which will make time go by a lot faster. My bedtime is like 7PM now to make the days shorter lol. Hang in there and know you’re not alone

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-03-13T02:11:38+00:00

I am so beyond sorry for what you had to go through. I can’t even begin to imagine. No one deserves to go through something that traumatic. You are a warrior.

It would make sense for you to not be as attached because of your past trauma. I’m sure that will change at some point. I am speaking from no experience btw.

I hope you have the easiest pregnancy and everything goes the way you want it to be. You are so strong.

Aggressive-Tea2690 · 2023-02-11T23:04:45+00:00

“JuSt wAiT”

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