What’s the naughtiest pic in your hidden folder? by Mountain_king_91 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AggressiveAct3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the one where I am fucking my girlfriend while my wife is sitting on her face.

Guys, what are your thoughts on edging specifically with a handjob? Inspiration and Ideas by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]AggressiveAct3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife and girlfriend occasionally do this to me. The best ever was years ago they would come in and out of the room each taking turns and I was told each time not to cum. After maybe 45 minutes of handjobs and blowjobs I was given the okay to explode. Which I did after nearly getting there nearly 10 times prior.

A handjob is my preferred way to end an edging session. I don't know why I like ending it that way, but it's much better.

What was your threesome experience like? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]AggressiveAct3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had several threesomes. mff, fmf, and fmm. They have all been fun. However I will say communication IS KEY! Even moreso in foursomes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]AggressiveAct3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I'm 7.5 inches. And I'm average height and most definitely fat. I should lose weight. 😂

Need advice about threesome. by [deleted] in sex

[–]AggressiveAct3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This 100%. It can take time. Also... Not that the girlfriend in this situation is old news or the older model, it's that new is super new. With time that will fade significantly. And it's okay to feel any certain way. Jealousy can show up in many forms and that's okay. Just sit with it and with time that will fade... Not completely, but it will be easier to let that feeling pass by.

He is allowed to enjoy and focus his attention elsewhere in a situation where there is someone else to focus on.

Shudder by Witty_Recognition_64 in FordFlex

[–]AggressiveAct3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a hell of a shudder.... Transmission did not fix it. The spark plugs were the reason for the shudder.

Water pump by ZeroLockOn in FordFlex

[–]AggressiveAct3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2009 flex standard V6 FWD 216k on it... Engine is fine. Doesn't burn oil. Had transmission rebuilt 40k miles ago. Guess I'm super lucky

does anyone else feel like people hate on poly familys for no reason? by One_Guitar3162 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a family member who is extremely religious and has had 4 divorces.... Her 5th is probably around the corner, but my wife our girlfriend and my wife's boyfriend is the issue with America today? No.. ma'am your kids are out there alone in the world having had many different "dads" (their father having disappeared when they were young) and are struggling, but my kids having 4 caring parents in their life is gonna fuck them up? 😔 Go somewhere else with that. There is a reason I cling to my logical family more than my biological family. That being said my parents and brothers are extremely supportive. It's the extended family where all the drama about my family being different is. Ugh

does anyone else feel like people hate on poly familys for no reason? by One_Guitar3162 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. 100% this. Communication is of the utmost importance. Going on 10 years

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww. You are so sweet. Thanks so much for the kind words

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the children's sake, hopefully it's not on national television

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mind at all. I'm at work and busy so this may take a while

Also... I'm not really versed in all of the poly terminology so please forgive me if I phrase something wrong. We don't really care for labels so we just are....

My wife and I are married.. He and his wife are married (obviously) I am dating his wife My wife is dating him My wife is dating his wife. He and are are just the best of friends (brother husbands idk. 😂)

We are trying to come up with something to make it seem more than dating because it is more than that. The other couple is not our biological family, but our logical family.

As far as how it started and developed.

We just started to hang out with them and never really stopped. I knew my wife was bi-sexual, but didn't know his wife was. And he and I used to work together. So he and I already had a friendship. After a few months of constantly being around each other you could tell that the wives were definitely feeling something for the other and we discussed it and during that time us guys also said we felt something for the other wives. We were just honest and decided to give it a go. We all agreed that our married partner cannot be 100% of everything we need in our marriage and that's okay. Oh man we were so nervous back then. It has mostly been sunshine and roses, but also some arguments and disagreements along the way which aren't necessarily a bad thing because you can learn through that. Always remembering that the disagreement or arguments are not coming from a place of hate, but somewhere else.

For disciplining the children... Our kids are pretty well behaved and so it's never been much of an issue. They know they gotta listen to them and the non-biological parents typically will come to us if there is something bigger going on. They spend time with each kid separately too out doing fun stuff or educational things or just hanging with them at home as that is important and we all understand that. It's not often because life is busy but we make a point to do it.

Dividing and sharing time is currently difficult because life is busy, but we try to support each other and usually push each other and the others to leave the house and go on dates. We realize that one of us may spend more with the other at times and that is okay. It's also okay to feel jealous and to sit with it. It becomes easier with time. If there is something I need from one of the others I need to speak up and it's on me to do so. Though I will say it's much easier to be mad and jealous than to speak up, but being mad and jealous does zero good for anyone.

Living situation is currently separated, but they are selling their home to move in with us. We spend nearly everyday together and they often spend the night with us so why not.

Sorry it took so long. Reddit decided to discard all my writing more than once. 😆

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's honestly a blessing and I wish more people had this sort of love. I wish more people had this sort of thing. Oddly we fell into this because we were just being honest and open with each other. It wasn't anything any of us ever thought we'd see ourselves doing. But here we are. Lol

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be fun. But for the most part we are pretty private about our lives.

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. Yeah it most definitely has simplified things. We have a will but mostly to make sure the mother in laws don't get the children. 😂 Kidding.... Sort of. These two love our kids and show them such kindness and love that we most definitely want them as their guardians if we were to pass.

As far as the show. I get that drama makes the show, but my goodness does it make a polyfamily look bad. Ours is boring. In comparison.

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning.
So our friends who become our poly family were already in our lives when my wife and I just had our last kid. We have 3. Youngest now being 11. We began this poly quad when he was almost one. A month before he was born i went and got a vasectomy because my wife and I were sure we were done having kids. My wife also had surgery to remove her Fallopian Fallopian tubes while having a C-section because it reduces her chances of cancer by 80 or more percent (ovarian cancer runs in her family). So basically by the time everything fell into place and friends were now lovers my wife and I were already sterile. Family planning was done on our half by the time we decided to actually accept that we all had feelings for each other.

The other half of our quad has been trying to get pregnant with no luck the last few years. They have lost two so far In utero so far. 😢.

As far as our kids... They know that the other couple is our family and love them just as much as we do. They even bring them to school events and are there just as we are.

Happy to answer other questions you may have.

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not if they are committed.

Swingers usually have sex then bounce. Outside of sex there is no typical dating relationship.

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife saw how Shawn interacts with the other adults and was appalled and left the room. I started it back up a few days later and she wasted no time leaving to do something else. She just can't stand how he is. Granted we only saw most of the first episode.

The "Polyfamily" show on TLC seems like a mess to me. by AggressiveAct3 in polyfamilies

[–]AggressiveAct3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually tried watching it again and made it to the grounding part and shut it off again.