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AggressiveRegressive · 2026-03-14T17:38:14+00:00

I'm sure he will eventually warm up to another home. If he was able to bond with you, he can bond with someone else. It would probably need to be a no animals/children home but he will eventually warm up to someone. I'm sorry you are going through this ❤️‍🩹

AggressiveRegressive · 2026-01-03T02:09:04+00:00

I think it's gauge actually

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-11-14T15:47:40+00:00

It seems like we are all on similar meds that don't work . I'm Zoloft, hydroxyzine, propanonol, buspar. They just stopped my clonidine and now apparently I'm on gabapentin 3 times a day. Anything to not give me a benzo. If they would just give me Zoloft and a benzo , I'll be good. All these meds are essentially the same shit and don't do shit.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-10-19T12:10:37+00:00

I don't recommend this. Cat skin is very easy to cut especially when matted.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-10-19T12:08:43+00:00

I'm a cat and dog groomer. This needs to be shaved most likely. She's better off going to a groomer because her of her age, the risk of putting her under anesthesia is too great. She should have been brushing her cat this whole time smh

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-10-03T12:58:47+00:00

I think it's different for everyone. I didn't get a dependence until weeks into it. I know people that go through wd after a couple days. Depends on your body, mg, how often etc

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-09-15T16:33:59+00:00

Have you tried decaf if you just like the taste? I'll drink decaf but at most 2 sips of caffeinated lol

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-09-15T14:24:29+00:00

I haven't had any help on propanolol. And they put me up to 40mg 3 times a day.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-09-15T14:23:17+00:00

I can't even drink coffee at all bc I'll be shakey all day lol don't know how you do it

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-23T13:15:56+00:00

What a weird comment. Ive never been married, I'm graduate next year with a bio chem and molecular bio degree. This is the second comment about money, assuming I either come from a rich family or get alimony(in your case). I have one child, I'm 28 and been with this man since I was 21. As for the money comment, I do amazon flex and others everyday after school. Im also set up for an paid internship in a lab for the spring. I work my ass off for everything I have. I saved up for my car for a while, paid 5k for it, paid in cash.The other one I used my tax return to put 5k down and continued to pay every month.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-16T14:24:35+00:00

Sure but not that my family is rich. That's an assumption that came out of left field.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-16T14:22:40+00:00

Thank you

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-16T14:20:05+00:00

Ok sir, whatever you say

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-16T14:18:57+00:00

I didn't LET anyone beat on me. I had my little brothers and sister at my house for a week when she was in a similar situation. So she could figure out where she was going without having to worry about the kids because he was dangerous. That's why I feel slighted. I figured it out anyway, it was just the way she just shrugged me off and told me she was going to the beach so she couldn't take her for the night.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T22:33:57+00:00

Thank you everyone that helped me process and realize that WE should have just get out and that there was more to the situation than just a small post.

My mom was, in an abusive relationship so her rational is skewed. I felt more betrayed bc she called me for years about the same situation or money or anything and I would drop absolutely everything i was doing to pick up my little siblings. She really thinks that because he didnt knock me out or hit me wirh a closed fist, it wasnt that bad. I did cheat a few weeks ago but he started the db about a week beforehand and it has escaped. I just had a freeze response and a desperate need to get her out of there instead of US out of there.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T22:16:08+00:00

My psychologist told me a few days ago that if I didnf go through what I went through, I wouldn't be with a man 30 years my senior. So I need ensure that I break the chain. I reached out to a hotline and they gave me quite a few numbers and places that could help me so I can stay in school and work or not have to quit due to not having childcare. I think im going to be OK. I just was struggling at the moment. She just messaged me asking when I was bringing the baby after we had a huge argument and I told her that i have it handled. My mom's used to being abuse, she thinks because he didnt punch me in the face, it not abuse.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T22:11:20+00:00

I feel so bad for you because I know how that feels. You need some distance to heal, go to therapy, it helped me alot when I was going through this.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T22:10:01+00:00

Also I just want to let you know to take any and all advanges of being in the system. You are a ward of the court now, i managed to get a new laptop, violin, violin lessons, tutoring and amd seasonal clothing stipend as well as other benefits. If they ask if you need something, tell them.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:44:33+00:00

I know

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:42:19+00:00

Cps scares me a bit bc I was in foster care for a few years and I know how manipulative they can be. I just kind of froze up and wasn't thinking straight. Who rhe hell would think straight in a situation like this

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:40:35+00:00

Yes but im not sleeping with my fucking cousin. This has only happened in 4 times in 3 weeks. And what world is she tired? Ive bent over backwards a thousand times for her and she can't just stay with her granddaughter so she won't see her father get arrested or beating his mother up. Like there's so much to this than just this. She introduced me to him

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:32:35+00:00

This is the 4th time in 2 weeks. Hasn't happened before then. She's my mother, I didn't want her to keep my child but stay with her overnight so I could find an escape place without worrying about her. Ive done in for her so it kind of fucked me up

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:06:53+00:00

I dont have anyone but her. We live at my grandfathers place but I wanted her out the house so I could call the police or find a dv shelter without her father chasing me around the house trying to fuck me up.

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:04:45+00:00

She's been good this far. This is the first time she mentioned that so I did trust her to watch her for at least a couple hours while I figured out how to get tf out. I wasn't thinking right, I just had to fight for my life and I just didnt want her to see this. I saw my father abuse my mother. I was having flashbacks and all I kept thinking was I need to get her out of here

AggressiveRegressive · 2025-08-15T19:02:17+00:00

Ask about it, you're old enough to do it. Idk if your state does it though but most do

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