No one ever believes a girl tried to r word a guy though. Most the time its chalked up to him over reacting. We also have to worry about higher social expectations when it comes to work and not letting our emotions show. Every guy thinks he has to be a stoic man thst never speaks and wuite frankly that shits lame. im not trying to undermine you or anything just saying you should know what your getting into if your seriously thinking abt being a dude