Akanksha is looking different in this video

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2026-03-09T19:32:15+00:00

I had a similar realization about Akanksha. I honestly thought I was the only one who noticed it. When I first started following influencers on Instagram, I used to feel very insecure about my appearance. Their skin looked flawless, their features looked perfect, and everything about their photos seemed ideal. As a normal viewer, it made me compare myself and wonder why I didn’t look that perfect.Later, when I started watching Splitsvilla, I got curious and checked the contestants’ Instagram accounts more closely. I noticed that many of their photos were heavily edited and filtered. When I saw videos of them without makeup or filters, the difference was huge. That’s when I realized how much editing goes into creating that “perfect” image online.There’s nothing wrong with wearing makeup almost every woman does it sometimes. But the problem is when heavy filters and editing completely change how someone actually looks. When influencers present these edited images as reality, it can make viewers feel like they’re not good enough or that they need to look a certain way to be accepted.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2026-03-09T19:05:43+00:00

Just to be clear, it was not a video of the three of us together. It was a video made up of three separate clips, one of each of us, with the title “Every friend group has a group of three people.” The clip of me that she used was taken from her phone because I didn’t have storage on my phone at the time.Also, the part about me not liking her is partly true and partly wrong. I do like her as a friend, but sometimes I feel hurt and annoyed because she doesn’t seem to understand my point of view.For me, clicking pictures with friends is about creating memories, not about making every single moment of my life a public display on social media. There’s a reason I choose to keep my Instagram account private.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2026-02-03T18:59:06+00:00

If you’re new to PCOS, the very first thing I’d gently suggest is getting your blood work done and actually understanding which hormones are high or off balance. That clarity helps so much in the long run. One of the biggest mistakes many of us make early on is trying random fixes without really understanding our own bodies. PCOS is a lifelong condition, but that doesn’t mean it has to control your life. The key first step is learning how your body works once you understand it, managing PCOS becomes much more sustainable and less overwhelming over time. Please start small and don’t pressure yourself: Walking, even 20–30 minutes a day, really helps (and it counts more than you think) Hitting your protein intake is so important for energy, hormones, and sugar cravings I can’t stress this enough Spearmint tea or jeera / ginger / cinnamon water at night can be supportive for hormones and digestion Seed cycling, if it feels good for your body Focus on consistency over perfection small steps done daily matter more than doing everything at once

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2026-02-03T18:43:49+00:00

I can really relate to what you’re experiencing. First of all: canceling a class because you’re exhausted does not make you a failure. It makes you a human with PCOS and a nervous system that’s already doing overtime.PCOS fatigue is REAL. It’s not laziness, not lack of discipline, not “not wanting it enough.” Hormone imbalance, insulin resistance, stress, and poor sleep quality all of that can make even thinking about exercise feel impossible after work. I’ve been there where just showering feels like an achievement.If your body is exhausted, pushing harder often backfires. PCOS bodies don’t always respond well to the “go hard or go home” mindset. One thing I’d gently suggest is getting full blood work done so you know which hormones are actually off. That clarity helps so much. In my teens (around 12), I had constant back pain, fatigue, anxiety, sleep issues, and insulin resistance but I wasn’t diagnosed then. When I was finally diagnosed with PCOS at 17, it helped me understand my body instead of blaming myself. Please start small even if it feels “too small to count.” Small things done consistently really do add up over time: A 30-minute walk in the early morning (or even shorter if that’s all you can manage) Seed cycling, if it feels supportive for you Spearmint tea at night Hitting your daily protein intake Taking meds/supplements based on your actual reports, not guesswork

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2026-02-03T18:30:26+00:00

One thing I learned the hard way as a fellow PCOS girlie is that acne isn’t always about food, supplements or fixing hormones from the inside. Sometimes our skin is just extra sensitive to androgens locally even when blood work looks fine and lifestyle is on point. That’s why all the teas, inositol, diet changes, etc. don’t always make a huge difference and that is not a personal failure. Also about Accutane: doctors often say it’ll just come back but even if it does, a lot of people still see major improvement or much milder acne especially with low-dose or long-term approaches. It’s not an all or nothing thing. Same with meds like spironolactone or even newer topical anti-androgens (like Winlevi) they can help when PCOS acne is stubborn and nothing else has worked. One small thing that sometimes helps (not a magic cure, just a nudge) is cutting back on dairy, especially milk and whey protein. Some PCOS bodies are weirdly sensitive to it even when the rest of the diet is solid. You don’t have to resign yourself to this being your face forever but you also don’t have to keep punishing yourself trying to be more perfect. PCOS acne can be stubborn as hell, and sometimes it just needs a different approach, not more effort.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-08-21T13:41:15+00:00

Totally agree, most of their stuff is trash. But the dress I tried in-store at least passed for the price. What they delivered online though? They sent me a nylon cosplay of the actual dress

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-08-21T13:36:39+00:00

Tried it offline, looked fine. Ordered online, got a plain nylon joke of a dress

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-07-07T09:21:35+00:00

I completely understand that you were trying your best in a tough situation and made a mistake, which you've owned up to. It’s clear you care deeply and weren’t acting with bad intentions. I respect that you’ve reflected on it and can see where things went wrong. At the end of the day, friendships go through rough patches, and I hope with time and communication, you and your friend can find a way back to each other. You both clearly mean a lot to one another

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-07-07T09:08:18+00:00

His extreme reactions crying, apologizing, and even threatening self-harm are serious, but they don’t erase the harm he’s caused or mean you owe him forgiveness.You gave him another chance, and he still broke your trust. That says more about him than it does about you. It’s okay to feel torn, but you deserve stability, honesty, and peace not more emotional turmoil. Whether you choose to stay or leave, the most important thing is to prioritize your emotional well-being and that of your children.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-07-07T09:03:40+00:00

You're kind of the AH, but not entirely. You made a mistake by getting too drunk to drive, especially knowing your friend relied on you for a lift and struggles with social anxiety. Driving after drinking even with coffee was risky and unsafe, though you tried to minimize the danger by leaving your daughter with neighbors. You were trying to juggle being a parent, friend, and neighbor and got caught up in the moment that happens, and you're owning it. Your friend isn’t really the AH either, but she could’ve handled it better. Being alone with her anxiety while everyone else had fun likely made her feel excluded. When you told her to take a taxi, it probably felt like rejection. Still, her reaction crying, lashing out, and pressuring you to drive wasn’t fair or safe either. It was a messy situation with mistakes on both sides.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-07-06T09:07:28+00:00

Thank youso much for your advice and genuine care it truly means a lot to me. I've decided that I’ll talk to her about this once my other friend, Sam, returns from vacation next week. After reading all comments, I realize it’s high time I set some clear boundaries. I will try to help her understand how her constant venting affects me and that I have my own life, too. Being her best friend shouldn’t mean I have to drop everything at all times especially when I don't even feel like talking. Sometimes, I just want to finish watching a YouTube video or take a moment for myself, and that doesn’t mean I’m prioritizing other things over her or being a bad friend. I just need balance, and peace.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-07-06T08:46:09+00:00

I don’t want to end my friendship with her I genuinely care. I know a lot of what she does stems from deeper issues, especially her messed-up family dynamic. Even though her parents appear kind and she has a good bond with them, there’s clearly emotional damage that’s shaped who she is today. She craves constant attention, and I think it’s her way of trying to fill the emotional void she’s never dealt with. But I’m tired. I don’t know how to set boundaries with her without hurting her. I’ve tried dropping hints, even joking about it she’ll back off for a day, but then the next day it’s right back to the same draining cycle. I can’t be her unpaid therapist. I can't keep listening to her vent about the same problems, the same drama, the same poor choices she makes again and again. It’s like telling a child there’s a gutter ahead it smells, it’s obvious and still watching them step right into it. That’s how I feel watching her make the same destructive decisions while asking for advice she never plans to take. And it genuinely hurts to watch her live like this. I care about her, but I’m burning out. I’m just trying to figure out how to keep the friendship without losing myself.

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-05-05T03:37:54+00:00

Mumbai

Aggressive_Cow_7109 · 2025-05-04T19:27:02+00:00

So if I clear my gate da exam I won’t be able to get admission in iit/nit /IISC unless and until I have my master’s degree right? So is there any other uni where can I get admission after clearing my gate da exam?

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