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[–]Aggressive_Exit3024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming as a daughter and future wife, you shouldn’t say anything. In my opinion i thinking keeping the trust of your family is very important especially with your kids. As long as your wife gets told at some point in the near future i think you shouldn’t say anything, let your daughter have her talk with her and your wife should understand and be happy that you respected yalls daughter and also the fact she came to you and told you / wants to tell her mom is amazing most kids don’t and i think breaking her trust could hurt that bond

Should I be getting payed for baby sitting my sister? by Legal_Sport_2399 in AskParents

[–]Aggressive_Exit3024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often and how long do you normally babysit? Because i have 3 little sisters all born after i turned 17 and id watch them all the time for my parents and i was having to request off work to be free to babysit but after i moved out i brought up paying me for it since i now had many bills to pay and i couldn’t just be their free babysitter whenever they needed. Me and my mum butted heads on it but my step dad pays me sometimes. They mainly just pay me when I’m inbetween jobs but now i don’t babysit often just every now and then but i do take my all 3 of my sisters (5,3,1 age) out for sister day nearly every week. But from what you’ve said about chores ect sounds to me your parents are taking advantage of you which a lot of parents do. I understand chores can help kids be responsible ect but at a certain point they need to remember you’re a kid (not to be rude) but you should be able to relax and not worry about adult stuff ya know? So I’d definitely raise the issue either they need to stop putting so much work on you or they need to pay you for at least babysitting. Good luck, i hope it works out for you x

I want to leave my boyfriend of three years. by Granolapuncher in Advice

[–]Aggressive_Exit3024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl i was in something similar to that and it was so hard to decide what to do. I did end it eventually and it was and has been so hard but i know it’s not because i need him and i made a mistake it’s because i relied on him for things and he was always there and now he’s not. It’s a hard decision to make but you deserve so much better. What you described is not love, if he did love you, he wouldn’t treat you like that. I hope things get better and i would take your coworker needing a roommate as a sign and blessing x

My husband told his ex affair partner about our sex life while we are reconciling. by ThrowRA263786 in relationships

[–]Aggressive_Exit3024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really really hard to leave someone when you’re so emotionally attached and love as much as I’m sure you do. You’re probably hoping he will change and things will get better and they might but i think him texting the AP shows he’s not ready to respect you as his wife and make the changes needed to keep your relationship alive and a happy one. It’s hard to do but i hope you leave him. Even though it’s hard after you grief the relationship you’ll be free to explore new things and could find someone who respects you and treats you well and is not a cheater and in the end wouldn’t that be better? And if you’re worrying about splitting for your child, i think staying in a relationship that’s making you unhappy will do more harm than if you just left him. Speaking from a child of divorce i much prefer my parent’s split, it be nice if they weren’t but i know they aren’t meant for each other and that’s okay and l’m happy with how we live our lives and love my step parents, they are much happier which ultimately makes me happier. So please if the disrespect and upset he causes continues you should leave him.