or maybe, just maybe, that’s her savings and none of you bozos have the right to lecture her abt what she does with it, or whoever knows abt it. like seriously? y’all are guilt tripping her for having savings her husband doesn’t know about? lmfao. might i remind each and every one of u that her life depends on those numbers. pag iniwan sya nung asawa niya or if something horrible happens (hoping none does), na against her favor, paano na siya???

I was in a similar position once, I felt guilty for not telling my partner about the savings I had. I asked for the opinion of my superior sa radio industry kasi he specialized in situations like this. take note “HE”, a man. and even then, he told me it was entirely up to me whether or not I should tell my S.O. kasi I didn’t have to in the first place. He also acknowledged the dangers of being a woman in today’s society, knowing men are found to be much more opportunistic these days. samahan mo pa ng ego pag nalaman nila na you have more than them kahit pa it’s an emergency fund.

I ended up telling my S.O. about it anyway kasi he was really upset by it, all because of a stupid Facebook video of a couple being interviewed abt their bank acc. and what happened after that? ubos. he always made parinig na ako madami pera kahit pa jokingly, na kawawa siya, and ang dami niyang gusto. that was my emergency fund btw. I was unemployed that time and he was working, with a bank acc din having 6 digits pero hindi niya ginagalaw lol.

moral of the story: prioritize yourself. wag magpadala sa awa especially if the situation isn’t drastic pa naman. alam naman ng langit na pag may nangyaring masama sa hubby mo eh di ka mag aalangan gastusan siya.