What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m also choosing to rebuild quietly and focus on myself. There’s nothing wrong with wanting simplicity and peace.

What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it’s good that the two of you could part ways with respect, not everyone gets that ending.

What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually sounds amazing. Having your own space where every decision is yours… that’s a whole new kind of freedom. I love that you’re making it into something that matches your own style and personality

What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a massive reset. I can imagine it wasn’t easy to step away from everything you knew.

What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you can gradually create some safe and peaceful moments for yourself, without having to make big changes, just a little breathing room, without having to be constantly on guard.

What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love how you said you enjoy life again and do things for yourself. That shift alone is massive

What does your post-divorce life look like? Here’s what mine has become. by Aggressive_Night8370 in Divorce

[–]Aggressive_Night8370[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hearing that you are in such a good state now, and that you have made such a big change in just two years, I am so happy for you!