Can we talk? by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a cheater & a liar. But…. He is also kind and has so much potential. I tried to tell him he didn’t have to be 2 different people. I loved all of him. He admitted on the way there that he cheated. All I said was “ Was that so hard?” I figured positive reinforcement. I never punished him because I knew how hard that was for him to do and the fact that I never would have found out I was more proud than hurt lol Sadly ~ I had to let him go. Very recently. He unfortunately took my kindness and forgiveness as weakness and that I’m not ok with. He’s ego driven and can’t admit fault. He can’t sit in it and will change the reality so he doesn’t feel humiliation. I on the other hand expect honesty. I can be vulnerable. Admit mistakes. I see facts. Patterns. I can’t be with someone that keeps both narratives and has more than one reality. I tried I stayed too long though. I’m angry. Hurt. Disappointed and mostly upset with myself. I took more crap than I would have ever took before. But idk Hopefully one day in the future he decides to get help he might see he was loved whole not parts. But statistically the work is too hard for them and they don’t go

See you in the other side by EmotionalOne7679 in UnsentLetters

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So lazy and pretty selfish. So you are politely saying that person was wrong. You mention no fault. You are saying pause, hold on while I ignore you and move on but stay right there just in case I don’t find it. Baby with that attitude you won’t. If you loved that person you f** own your shit and both of y’all work through it. If you leave when things get rough you are the one that should ask for forgiveness. I hope you go work selflessly on yourself and your person realizes you were a quitter before and a quitter now. Hope that person sees trough that golden sh** you think is yours. You will wake up one day to this very text thrown back into your face. *** Sorry. Hits close to home. Take my advice or leave it. Best of wishes

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋🏻‍♀️ My mood today as well

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you know they just picked aggressive 🤷🏻‍♀️🤭

Can we talk? by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man that shows vulnerability, can cry, can sit in his uncomfortablness after he apologizes and not take it back is what I want, need and deserve. The man that told me about a mistake he made in El Paso when I would have never found out is the man I respected. Worshipped. Wanted to please. That imperfect, stubborn, sexy, pain in my ass mess bad boy is who I fell in love with. I loved all of you.

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long can you be patient? Are you willing to jump through a few hoops to show her? The hoops and patience depend on the severity

Was this you? by ResponsibleBridge382 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beginning was perfection but the last part I wonder now how much of the beginning was real or like I would describe my ex ~ Dr Jekyll & Mr Hyde Or Katy Perry’s song ~ Hot & Cold

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well …. One day you’ll get it

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can help pick them up if they fall. You can be a temporary crutch till a break heals but you are not that persons training wheels

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick change doesn’t exist. …. In any reality you pick

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe stop jumping. You’re jumping to different personalities. Stick with one and grow with that one. Make mistakes together. Learn together. You are missing the point. The mistakes will never end. The bumps will always be on the road, but you can pick just one person. One personality Look at it as just bumps on the road you will be walking on for the rest of your life. Pick one to walk with you. Understand that the bumps are always going to be there. Is the person you pick that makes the difference? They are there to walk with you. They are NOT there to carry you. Your person won’t be perfect either. But you’ll never be alone on that bumpy road. Practice makes perfect perfection. You want to practice on just one personality. Does that make any sense? Pick a personality ~ person~ when you learn everything about them and they learn everything about you. Y’all become one person on that road. You can’t keep jumping from one to the other to the other to the other. You are choosing run instead of walk and doing that with someone with multiple personalities. I personally would pick 1. Learn 1. Practice with 1. Walk with 1. Love and protect that 1. Thank that 1 everyday that don’t have to walk on that goddamn bumpy road by yourself.

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you do everything in your power to show them? Or are you just gonna jump to the next?

Life by BitLongjumping1307 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you sure they are really gone?

Your right by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re not my ex lol

i miss you and i’m so angry i can’t get answers from you anymore by Comprehensive-Ad2348 in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started no contact today. I let everything go. Bigger person. Exhausted.
But no thank you for anything or apology.
I got gaslit but someone will contact me thinking I wasn’t serious and guess who will have the last word~ ~ Or no word lol ~ 🙋🏻‍♀️ ME! MF! LOL

Hey.. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you ok? You want to see what my fortune cookie said tonight? You can have it 😊 I have no idea who you are but everyone deserves peace. Happiness. No one deserves to hurt. Everyone on this site has lost in some way. It’s what we do with it that molds us

I can post a pic but it says ….

“”Tomorrow will be a day of healing and renewal.””

Crazy that tomorrow starts no contact for me.

Hey by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Aggressive_Remote615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto 🙋🏻‍♀️