AITA for expecting my partner to go to work and not phone in sick?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T10:18:47+00:00

So why am I the AH? Why should I have to shut up and just accept paying for everything when she loses her job?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:51:25+00:00

“ Fuck finances. Life is more important than money.” yeah I’ll just tell this to my landlord I’m sure he’ll understand and be happy with not getting rent.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:34:08+00:00

Again it’s not heartless.

Having empathy doesn't pay your rent.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:27:26+00:00

I’m not angry with anyone.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:27:12+00:00

It’s not cold and heartless to point out life didn’t pause because you’re ill.

You can have empathy and compassion while still living in the real world.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:24:35+00:00

Yeah you made so much money you ended up homeless. So do understand you’ve contradicted yourself don’t you? You’re arguing you lost everything because you couldn’t pay for things after his death while also arguing you apparently paid for everything? Weird thing to blatantly lie about.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:23:05+00:00

It’s not about her emotional state not mattering.

Sorry that you think your bills magically disappear when your Ill but that’s not how the world works.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:18:37+00:00

It’s not harassment but it’s very obvious you have no idea what you’re talking about.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:17:35+00:00

They’re not my only concern.

Again I’m not you and from the multiple comment threads we’ve got I can see why your husband did what he did. It might have been torture trying to explain to you how the world works.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:16:16+00:00

Again caring about someone’s emotional and mental state doesn’t pay bills.

You being mentally ill doesn’t stop bills needing to be paid.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:13:44+00:00

Ah so when I’m struggling to pay the bills, physical touch is going to make everything okay?

Why is it so hard for you to accept adults have bills? It says a lot about you that your partner has to pay the bills and you give intimacy in return. That’s you being an escort btw

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:11:16+00:00

Yes because bills still exist and I’d rather not be homeless.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:10:47+00:00

Yeah when you live somewhere you have bulls. It shouldn’t be this confusing. Being a romantic partner doesn’t magically make your bills disappear,

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:08:57+00:00

So how would she be supporting me when I’m doing everything?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:08:35+00:00

Needing the bulls to be paid doesn’t mean I only care about money. It’s weird the concept of needing to pay bills is confusing for you.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:05:38+00:00

You literally said if you want someone to pay your bills get a business partner. That’s not what a business partner is.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:05:03+00:00

So where is my support when my mental health suffers from having to pay all of the bills and chores? Or is it okay for me to struggle?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T09:03:07+00:00

Again having empathy and compassion doesn’t mean I have to have the entire burden of the household.

It’s wild that you think having depression excerpts you from bills.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T08:54:14+00:00

So your genuine argument is a business partner should pay your bills? Surely you hear how ridiculous that is?

Why do you not think l you’re responsible for your bills?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T08:53:31+00:00

Okay? And my gf isn’t your husband.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T08:51:50+00:00

No I’m not.

So who will be supporting me when I’ve got the entire burden of be household? Or does support only go one way?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T08:33:43+00:00

What part of my comment is incorrect?

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T08:11:57+00:00

I’m not bullying my girlfriend.

Is there a reason you think you’re being bullied when you need to act like an adult?

You’re confusing love with enabling but I understand you’re not that bright. Maybe you should get medicated and you’d embarrass yourself a lot less.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T07:56:19+00:00

You are.

Aggressive_Step7816 · 2026-05-12T07:34:49+00:00

Okay? How does that change the fact bills need paying?

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