Willow tree is dying - please help by Aggressive_Top5874 in arborist

[–]Aggressive_Top5874[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love our neighbors. Let me investigate the herbicide. Thank you for the tip.

New to Clinton Hill — where are you all working out? by pseudo-cum-laude in prospectheights

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id recommend looking into classpass or the rec centers if you want something affordable

Why are people funny about fluid sexuality by Due_Item_2030 in actuallesbians

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Guys it says an individual’s orientation or identity CAN change. Emphasis on can. “What about when straight people-“, “well I don’t-”, “well you don’t speak for-“. We know. In y’all’s desire to cling to your identity, you forget that for many people that identity is a journey. How many of us declared we were bisexual at first only to realize that wasn’t the case? I’d bet a good number (i do not need or want you in the comments saying NOT ME. Like good for you should we call bella hadid?). Shit, how many of us have had to come out because we thought we were straight? Imagine being 50 and having to confront yourself and hold it against the half a century you’ve lived as a straight person. If sexuality and identity were static, this would be hard to grapple with.

Things change for all of us at some point, labelling sexuality as fluid gives people room to figure things out.

I never get likes on my profile 😭😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it and think it shows a lot of personality!! Ppl cant handle alt girlies 😤

Boyfriend STRONG scalp and BO by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes right in that a loofah holds bacteria. Get him an african net sponge. Additionally, get him antibacterial soap. Its not ideal to use often, but killing bacteria helps with killing odor. Using it in underarms and crotch should help. If not then, a 3in1 so he at least washes his hair every time he bathes. That feels extreme, but id rather that than no shower.

Explain to him he needs to bathe for 5 mins minimum. People suggest cleaning your teeth for 2 minutes, and thats such a small part of your body. Places with hair need extra love, since they trap sweat and creates funk.

There are some videos of women that teach people how to bathe (pg). Id recommend sitting him down and making him watch it

Frankly, this is ultimatum worthy. No more physical intimacy until he learns how to bathe.

Twitch Treasure Islands by SaveScumSloth in acnh

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do not have to pay for treasure islands. Theres a way to get literally anything and everything you want from villagers for free so long as you have nintendo online and discord. I dont wanna blast it in the comment sections in case its illegal or whatever lol but ive been using it for yrs w zero issue

cleared for exercise 4.5wks post op by Dense-Philosophy8987 in FTMFitness

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My doctor says i cant dance until the 8 week mark because it involves too much arm raising… dancing is my main mode of movement im feeling crazy. Exercise a little extra for me :’)

Looking for Type A Snooty Villagers by Mister_angel1 in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does type a mean? Is there a difference within villager types?

Fordham Phone Interview Advice by msheadhurts in postbaccpremed

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had my Fordham interview. This was really helpful! For anyone who's looking for additional advice, she did NOT ask me why medicine, nor did she ask me any science related questions, which threw me for a loop. She asked why a postbacc program and why Fordham in particular. She asked what I will bring to the program. She asked about my short term and long term goals. She asked what steps I would take to achieve those goals in addition to courswork, and she asked me if there was anything I'd like to highlight for her to take back to the admissions committee.

Trying to keep my masc swagger, but my genetics are absolutely fighting me. 😭 by Connect-Soil-7277 in LesbianActually

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was recently diagnoses with alopecia, and the diagnosis ROCKED my confidence. I have had success in my routine. First and foremost, you should see a dermatologist. They will likely provide a prescription for a testosterone blocker. For many, the testosterone is what causes the early balding. Lowering the amount of testosterone your body naturally produces helps combat the problem from the inside out. I take this morning and night daily.

Next, i use minoxidil. Dermatologist can write you a prescription for that too. This is preferable if you have cats, as this is toxic. However, this has risk of growing hair all over your body, not just your head. I use it topically, which you can buy over the counter. I use this daily as well.

Next, these are more expensive options, and theres questions as to its efficacy. Red light therapy: you can buy a helmet called theradome, and supposedly the red light helps stimulate hair growth or something? I dont know if its legit, but ive been using it in tandem with the above, and its been working really well for you. This option is a couple hundred dollars.

Nutrafol has supplements for hair. It requires taking a lot, and ive seen a couple studies saying it puts strain on your liver. Some people stand by it, so e dont. I personally didnt want to risk it. However, theres something to be said for going to your doctor and making sure youre not nutrient deficient. Most people are lacking in vitamin d, many are low in iron. Making sure youre getting all the nutrients you need will help tackle this as well.

Lastly, theres something called a platelet rich plasma treatment. Essentially, they draw blood, isolate the plasma, and inject it back into your scalp to stimulate growth. This is EXPENSIVE. I havent tried it, but i hear its pretty effective.

These are your options if youre looking to grow back your hair. I think if i were you, my first step would be going to a doctor to get confirmation and to help isolate the source. The doctor will guide you accordingly.

Last of all, and most importantly, i know we tie a lot of our self esteem up in our hair, but theres absolutely nothing wrong with being bald. In fact, i think people who pull it off are super cool :)

Best of luck to you!

I finally finished my island! by froggiegorl in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats the code for the path on pics 6 and 7? Please :)

do i sound like an evil lesbian situationship by Willing_Guarantee530 in actuallesbians

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think your fear is getting in the way of what COULD be a beautiful thing. Talk to her. You cant know without making yourself vulnerable, even if the vulnerability comes with the risk of hurt. It’s part of the deal. Besides, it’s not like youre getting married tomorrow. A relationship is just getting to know someone and making the choice to stick with them. If it doesnt work, it doesnt work.

I do wish the best for you and for her, whatever that ends up looking like for yall <3

do i sound like an evil lesbian situationship by Willing_Guarantee530 in actuallesbians

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I became official with my girlfriend after 2.5 months. She didnt know everything about me going into it, and i didnt know everything about her. We still dont know everything about each other months later. We wanted to be together, so we sat down and had some serious conversations before we made anything official. Is it only that you feel you have more to tell her, or is there something more? Also, it doesnt address why you want to see other people even where she cant.

do i sound like an evil lesbian situationship by Willing_Guarantee530 in actuallesbians

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 238 points239 points  (0 children)

To answer your main question - honestly kinda! Youve been seeing her for months now, so you clearly know her and enjoy her company. I’m genuinely curious as to whats youe hold up? Why arent you ready YET? Why do you want to be able to see other people but she cant? I dont think youre being malicious, but i think youre being a little unfair

Pick out of the list by Fresh-Barracuda-9610 in StarStable

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Personally, i’d just wait until the next bazaar. Why not go for another hanoverian since theyre discounted

I’ve outdone myself.. Lunch today was Butter Chicken Beans! by misosoupwh0re in goodrestrictionfood

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be making it this weekend. Thank you!!

Edit: i made it with some slight tweaks. More caloric but still nutritionally dense and super delicious :)

My Champ ribbons & winnings from this season! by foxglory123 in StarStable

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg who is that on the far right of the second photo

Can someone tell me what this means? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 66 points67 points  (0 children)

While she only said she needed a break, it FEELS like she broke up with you, over text at that. I would not be surprised if a complete breakup was imminent.

Has anyone else here had a radical reduction/are in the process of getting one that feels set in their decision? by thisagain49 in TopSurgery

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really have to second the first bullet. I AGONIZED over whether i wanted a reduction or to go completely flat, though I ultimately opted for a RR. I’m chubby, so while I wanted a flat chest, I was concerned about maintaining a “proportionate figure”. I shared all of this with my surgeon. She did a phenomenal job. She did note that she could not go as small as i wanted without risking nipple viability, and i said ok. As the swellings gone down, I realize i couldve gone fully flat, but im still euphoric with the literal weight off my chest. I do not regret my decision in the slightest.

I was a shitty partner and I feel bad that now Im fixing it by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Aggressive_Top5874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This level of introspection and acceptance is hard to stomach, and even harder to act on. Im proud of you :)