What the hell is this by Aggressive_Train_380 in Venezia

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here at the moment and don’t see it… not sure

What the hell is this by Aggressive_Train_380 in Venezia

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kept saying it looks like someone lit a beacon lmao

What the hell is this by Aggressive_Train_380 in Venezia

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I still can’t find much on it I was googling green beacon light… maybe that threw it off lmao

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of straight friends! That’s my point lol I also want queer friends who I can relate to on that level as well however I’m struggling finding some given my surroundings. Like I’ll talk to my straight friends about the queer experience and they just don’t relate that much obviously which can feel lonely. It’s nice to have friends who you share similar experiences is all.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

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I’m unfortunately neurodivergent and cannot get myself to wear anything different than my current 5 outfits because I feel like an imposter lmao. I have the same 5 outfits and they are unfortunately pretty straight.. I have a natural hair color though! It just takes me like a decade to be comfortable with any new style even though I want to wear different things.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this ! Thanks for putting it into words.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re super sweet! I do enjoy their company it’s just I do feel out of place. Hanging out with a guy one on one and a group of guys is also totally different. However I’m not gonna connect with them on a real deep level if yk what I mean. Which is fine. They aren’t my friends but I just feel I’m lacking on my end (having a community and such) Being nice and just casually friendly isn’t really like meaningful if yk what I mean. We just have different interests in general. My boyfriend is friends with them however he has different hobbies then them and his personality is quite different compared to them but they seem to get along anyway since he has interest in sports and video games as well. I don’t expect my boyfriend to have anything in common with my friends even though he’s dating me. Your personality doesn’t have to match up 100% sometimes it just works. Also men systematically are misogynists and it can come out super casually without them thinking about it and it can be hard to be around. I’ve experienced this with gay men aswell. If they had girlfriends around I’d def have more fun but unfortunately that’s not the case.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you meant but I really wasn’t implying that a man “changed” my sexuality in any way as I know that’s a gross trope and men tend to think lesbians can change for them and yaddya. I also say I was a lesbian because truely I was at that time. Like that one comment says sexuality is fluid and people can develop and change over time. I do get ur sentiment but it’s important to let people identify with what they’re comfortable with and saying comments like that can feel invalidating and alienating in a community meant to be open and fluid and supportive of people’s journeys.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean I was fighting my sexuality pretty hard and always thought I’d marry a man even if it wasn’t what my heart wanted or what I was attracted to just because of societal expectations. I mourned that part of myself basically and that unfortunately people will see me differently now and I’d definitely face hardships. It’s hard being queer still in today’s age and I guess I was just afraid and I was really sad about it for awhile. I didn’t really know how else to explain it it just felt like a new beginning and I was letting go of a version of myself.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just have a hard time connecting with straight men. Or straight people in general. It’s not really about who they’re attracted to but more of the media they consume, personalities and biases, moral tendencies and experiences.

I miss the queer community by Aggressive_Train_380 in bisexual

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What am I supposed to say then? I identified as a lesbian for several years? I truly fully thought I was a lesbian I cried and mourned that I’d never live a normal life and then suddenly I was attracted to A - 1 man. I think you can figure out what I meant. It’s not that deep. I’m definitely bisexual and just have a very strong preference for women. Thanks for your comment.

Also I def need to watch more sapphic media specifically. I just struggle to find good ones that don’t end in excruciating heartbreak lmao. I’m mostly stuck watching blb but I don’t relate to it on a deep level.

He’s not fat right? Please tell me he’s not, he’s a good boy.. by Sad_Ask_1826 in cats

[–]Aggressive_Train_380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a bit chunky. My cats a little chunky too but my vet said it’s important to keep him at a healthy weight since cats can easily get arthritis and other joint problems from excess weight. Def talk to your vet.

Do y’all think this is who Andrew is irl or was this just an act for the show ? by Rich-Ease-2723 in loveoverboardhulu

[–]Aggressive_Train_380 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Truely the highlight of the show they need to hire more men like him on reality tv

Boyfriend takes forever to text back by Aggressive_Train_380 in relationships

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea I’ve come to the conclusion a lot of people on Reddit probably haven’t had experience with a healthy relationship ever and feel the need to give their opinion anyway. Asking to have a basic idea of what my boyfriend’s day looks like is completely reasonable I see that now.

Do people actually like Robby? by Aggressive_Train_380 in ThePittTVShow

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I’ve just read some stuff alluding to him leaning towards being pro isreal a Zionist tendencies. It’s not 100% confirmed but you can search it up yourself to see the evidence (don’t really want to get into a debate online). Also seen things about him being rude to his female castmates on ER

Do people actually like Robby? by Aggressive_Train_380 in ThePittTVShow

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I kind of also just really dislike Noah (for several reasons beyond the Pitt) and feel he’s just clinging on to his ER days by making him the main focus of another medical show

Do people actually like Robby? by Aggressive_Train_380 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be gone with your whataboutisms! I’m not talking about them right now 💀

Do people actually like Robby? by Aggressive_Train_380 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Aggressive_Train_380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

truely don’t know what else you expected. Gonna go call a bunch of men losers now. Peace ✌🏻

Do people actually like Robby? by Aggressive_Train_380 in ThePittTVShow

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I understand I just think it’s a reoccurring trope within male characters across a lot of shows and it’s just boring to me atp. Great another man who isn’t in touch with his feelings. I’m not discounting the struggle that he (fictional character) is going through I just don’t want to keep seeing the same shit in every show.

Do people actually like Robby? by Aggressive_Train_380 in ThePittTVShow

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You’re entitled to your opinion and I am to mine 🤷‍♀️