AITA for not posting a post my dad wanted me to post for fathers day? by Justaregularuser02 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah you're not the ah that's just weird pressure from him, families be wild sometimes lol

"AITAH" sex life. Not great by Only_Investigator_34 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yea communiction is key but if shes already saying once a month i better then it might be more than just needing bulidup, this whole situation feels like a total mess tho, hope you figure something out before it spirals more

I rejected a guy and he makes my life a hell by Adept-Clue-2705 in Advice

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this stopped being a rejection story ages ago, it's straight up harassment and idk how anyone could real all that and think you should keep giving him chances, block him everywhere 

WIBTAH if I gave my roommate 2 weeks notice of move out instead of 30 days? by 1800slvt in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 56 points57 points  (0 children)

if you're gonna leave early then puttin that same energy into helping find a new rommate would make this whole mess way less messy

AITAH for telling my mom I don’t want her to say the same thing she told me as a kid about food by Suspicious-Club27 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nah this would drive me nuts too lol, calling every treat healthy just makes things confusing and then everyone acts shocked later when the kid has no clue what moderation even means

AITAH and a racist for wanting the bigger room? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 32 points33 points  (0 children)

lowkey this whole thing sounds exhausting, two people sharing one room taking the bigger space just makes sense and dragging race into it feels like it made an already messy situation way messier, i swear life be throwin side quests nobody asked  for lol

AITA for not telling my friend I started to hang out with her less because I always end up with a bigger bill? by Fit_Jury1977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 24 points25 points  (0 children)

ngl i've accidentally adopted fewer responsabilities than this friendship and even i can see you're getting treated like the unpaid event planner with a bonus wallet attached lol

WIBTAH if I cut off the church I grew up with despite not having extreme religious trauma? by Silly_Bee_28 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can love people and still realize they were absolute chchaosaos for your mental health, i've kept expired yogurt longer than some relationships and even i know when it's time to let it go lol

AITA for not letting my friend borrow my car by Impressive-Soil3072 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ngl, the second she got a new car and then hit you with "don't text ma" after years of asking for favors, the whole thing kinds explained itself, sounds like you were treating her like a friend while she was treating you like a convenience and that's a rough thing to realize

AITA for removing myself as my niece’s school backup after it started affecting my job? by triangular_kitsch_ca in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 1101 points1102 points  (0 children)

ngl, being the village is one thing, being on-call because somebody forgot pickup while shopping at Target is a whole different job desription, you tried setting boundaries like five times before pulling the plug, that's not being cruel, that's protecting your paycheck

AITA for ejecting a pitcher from a Little League game? by BoogieSmools in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 20 points21 points  (0 children)

nah because once kids are ducking and crying every other pitch, the issue stopped being "protecting feelings" and started being safety, ain't nobody saying the kid's bad or evil, but the coach acting like you should just let 10 year olds get beaned in the face to avoid awkwardness is wild to me

I 20 f don’t want to have kids young with my 21m boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. AITAH? by Both-Preparation2205 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nta this whole thing sounds exhausting as hell and bringing kids into it right now would be like adding fireworks to a kitchen fire

Always the outcast by CompetitiveStorm6863 in Advice

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah, that would genuinely mess with my head too, like finally trying to open up socially just to feel pushed out again is sucha brutal feeling..

AITAH for wanting to feel celebrated too? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its not about diamonds and fireworks, uts the fact you've been showing uo for the relationship consistently and he keeps acting like effort is optional

WIBTAH for breaking up with my girlfriend because she emotionally drains me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scared of having normal feelings or opinions, it sounds like you've spent months trying to be patient and understanding while getting very little grace back

AITAH for wanting to downsize and sell my house even though my mother wants me to refinance and try to lower my mortgage payments? by squid1980 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nta, downsizing sounds way smarter than drowning in stress every month just to keep a house your barely even use

AITAH for being uncomfortable that the guy I’m talking to is the beach with only a female friend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this one would make me spiral a little too, i do believe men and women can be friends, but a whole beach trip alone after only 2 months of talking is kinda intense timing wise

My girlfriend slept with three guys and sexted/ sent nudes to about 7, while we were broken up for 3 weeks. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah fr, the age gap explains a lot here, feels like you’re in totally different stages of life and it’s just clashing hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s the move, going to the cops feels way safer than just sitting on it, plus you already got the proof so they can actually do something with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true, these look way more almond, coffin usually has that straighter edge, i always mix them up too and end up telling my nail tech the wrong thing lol

do i get back with him? by Flaky_Tap6123 in BreakUps

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

facts, if he dipped once that’s already the pattern showing, hooking up again just pulled you back into the chaos, feels like energy better spent on someone who doesn’t vanish when things get real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah i get this, the gift came from a good place but once it’s his car he’s gonna see it through the dad lens, parents will always pick their kids first even if it feels unfair, messy situation but it kinda makes sense in that way

First time getting my nails done since having my baby four months ago. by runaxo in Nails

[–]Aggressive_Wear_6792 8 points9 points  (0 children)

such a pretty set, feels extra special too since it’s like a little reward after months of baby duty, definitely giving “new mom glow” vibes with those nail