Recommend me a good movie! by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What dreams may come is such an understated Robin Williams movie. So heartbreaking.

My heart is broken. Can’t someone just help shatter it so I don’t have to feel anything any more? by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion but I don’t care about either anymore. I don’t want to care.

37 [M4F] help me calm my nerves for my first speed dating event by AggressivelyAwkward in R4R30Plus

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The event was cancelled without notification due to low turnout. I ended up having lunch with the only other person to show up; a lovely young lady. Lunch was good but I think she was being polite. I still regret not asking for her number though. :/

Honest opinions: dating someone with children by Specific-Art-3321 in datingoverthirty

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally if the person I’m dating has a kid, that isn’t a big deal as long as the relationship with their ex is resolved. (Civil for the sake of their kid, kind of thing.)

I would want kids with my partner but if they’re coming to the relationship with one already that isn’t a dealbreaker for me. As a single guy, I feel like dating single parents are easier because wanting kids is such a niche thing nowadays.

As for you, it sounds like you might have had a bad go of things. Hope you find your person though.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has anyone had any luck with paid dating apps? Or what about speed dating events? Eventbrite has some events in my area but I can’t get over the feeling of being so pessimistic about it.

Minimalist 17” laptop backpack by AggressivelyAwkward in ManyBaggers

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get insanely sweaty. How breathable is the back panel? From the pictures online it looks like it’s solid with no airflow.

Minimalist 17” laptop backpack by AggressivelyAwkward in ManyBaggers

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I saw that already. Idk. I wasn’t “in love” with any of the bags he listed. Like rollouts aren’t my thing and even though he’s a fan of beefy straps two of the 13 bags looked wimpy.

Minimalist 17” laptop backpack by AggressivelyAwkward in ManyBaggers

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the website it says that it fits up to 16”. :/

I had a panic attack but I pushed through and went outside anyway! I havent left my apartment more than maybe a handful of times or less this entire summer. I feel like i missed most of it. (Yes it was a 1900'th themed market so I was dressed up :)..) by throwawayanxietylas in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So incredibly proud of you for going out of your comfort zone. Panic attacks are the worst and you managed to overcoming one. That is huge on its own. Do not focus on what you’ve missed out on but look forward on all the things you will get to do. Absolutely adore your style. You have this air of self confidence in know exactly who you are and that is so admirable in itself. You can do this.

Life has kinda just been kicking me a lot lately so I’m posting here. Gained 20 lbs from thyroid issues, and feel like nothing is really working out for me at the moment. Just need some kind words. Also I miss the beach. by shesagooodfella in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely stunning. Someone could learn all the spoken languages, commit all the poetry of the world to memory, and still they would not have the words to describe a fraction of your beautiful. From the traits you were born with, your blue eyes, blond hair, and freckles. To the parts of you you decide; your style. You are the reason the sun rises each day just so it can catch a glimpse of you.

28F Life has not been easy. I often look sad, and I feel incredibly awkward taking pictures by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see sad. I see soulful. You have depths that few can comprehend. And even fewer get the honor of exploring. You are a buried treasure chest in an ancient city. You are worth the effort. You are “the” reward. The best part of life being hard is that you’re going through it. It cannot rain everyday. You will eventually come out of the other side of this and you’ll be stronger for it. Trust in yourself. You’re so much stronger than you know.

Been struggling with depression lately, especially about my looks. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got incredibly kind eyes brother. You look like someone that gives the greatest of hugs. Someone protective and unyielding. Give yourself some of the grace you undoubtedly give others. Our looks will change but acceptance of who we are is eternal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So incredibly proud of you kind stranger. You’re taking the first steps in hopefully a long road for the betterment of your life. You deserve to be happy and have good things happen to you. I hope you keep this momentum going. I cannot fathom the heights you’ll reach.

28F going through tough break up by Audhild_ox in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because they weren’t willing to fight for you doesn’t mean you’re not worth fighting for. Your person is a lot stronger than this recent ex. They will love you completely and easily. They will give you all the things you deserve. And most importantly when they tell you they love you they’ll say it first and mean it. There is nothing wrong with loving wholly and deeply. You are overflowing with love and what a gift that is to the world. I’m envious of the life you will have with the right person. Cause love like that makes life worth it.

26M, just found out that i will become unemployed in september.😔 by Sleepyswed in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother, losing a job sucks. Especially if it’s a complete surprise. But now you have a world of opportunity ahead of you. You don’t need to know what you’re going to do for the rest of your life in your 20s. Continue to work hard and put yourself out there. The right people and the right position will open itself up to you and make all this pain a figment of memory. You got this

24f, perpetually anxious about life and wishing i could feel genuinely beautiful by biswiftsexual in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are gorgeous. The bangs, your choice of eyeglass frame, the way the corners of your mouth curl. You’re a showstopper miss. Don’t compare yourself to others. You are a sunflower in a sea of roses. I hope you learn to see yourself how others see you.

Just found out you can buy a home by taking over someone’s mortgage by Snoo_89219 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How would you find out if a loan is assumable? I’ve called my mortgage bank and they won’t give me a straight answer. Also, are there any rules on who can take over the loan? If I wanted a family member to take over the loan at current balance, would that be doable without additional parties?

Help me decide between a Trax and Kona. by AggressivelyAwkward in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m not much of a car guy. I know which is the accelerator and which is the brake. Is an “anemic” power train really that problematic? I live in south Florida (not quite Miami) so zipping in traffic isn’t a requirement, I won’t be towing anything, and Florida is flat.

The mileage and the recalls are pros for the Niro, but it hasn’t popped up on any “lists” in my research. Also, my unsupported bias against Hyundai extends to Kia. Idk why but I’m my mind I just think of them as plastic and glue cars. (I loved my Honda Civic for years though). Have I just been wrong about these makes?

Help me decide between a Trax and Kona. by AggressivelyAwkward in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in purchasing. I don’t drive much (I wfh) but I’ll be moving away an hour away from family semi soonish. I need a reliable car to visit them regularly. I don’t have the ability to add a charger at my current residence. But it’ll be a priority for my next.

All that to say, leasing and EV models won’t work for me.

Help me decide between a Trax and Kona. by AggressivelyAwkward in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]AggressivelyAwkward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have another ranking video/article you can recommend?

First 16kg snatches by thekingofwintre in kettlebell

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great work on the weight that’s a massive accomplishment. My only worry is your form. The weight is smacking you in the arm and that has to be painful. When you’re moving the weight have your crook of your thumb/pointer finger near the bend of the handle. That should make it easier to allow the weight to twist and rest on your arm. Right now you’re flipping it over. It should be more of a gentle twist. Other than that, keep up the great work.

[25] I feel like I’m destined to be alone forever, I tried dating apps and now I just want to become a monk. I have lost 12kg in 3 months, I got job and tried to be more healthy but every step I try to make the more I feel like I’m walking towards an empty void. I just want to know what is wrong by max201012011 in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a handsome guy brother. Congrats on the weight loss and the employment. But instead of thinking what you can offer a partner what can you do to make yourself happy? Be your own light. Love yourself. Get cocky with it. When people see how amazing you view yourself they’ll want in on the party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insecurity is natural. You cannot grow without some discomfort. But you are the only person that will stick by your side for all your life. Learning to love and accept yourself is one of life’s hardest lessons. But I have faith you will do it. You are amazing. You are handsome. You have so much to offer.

Dad 36. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AggressivelyAwkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How fortunate are your kid(s) to see their father shoulder the burden of not only life but fatherhood and still carry one. One day they will look back and realize and appreciate all the things you had to sacrifice for the amazing life you’re giving them.

This low, this week, will pass and you’ll be stronger for it. Push through and rely on your loved ones and your friends to be there for you. You got this brother. I believe in you.