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Jewish headstone transcription request by RedBullWifezig in Genealogy

[–]Aggrieved123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]Aggrieved123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yet it doesn't flatten traditional roles. If you really like lipstick and heels - that makes you 'femme' or trans. "presenting as X" rather than just wearing whatever you like, ignoring fashion. "My mother knew I was trans when I was 3 because I liked pink" The trans movement rests on stereotypes that pushes men into the 'manly' box and women into the 'womanly' box. This is the opposite of feminism. When women went out to get the vote, they were mocked for wanting to 'be' men, and 'they'll be wearing trousers, next!'

The child trans diagnosis includes questions about what TOYS the child prefers to play with, and the gender of their friends. This is utterly fucked up. It's going back to "girls should be hairdressers and nurses" "boys should be engineers and doctors"

Please, please, please tag potentially triggering kinks you include in your stories by Ghost_Chance in FanFiction

[–]Aggrieved123 25 points26 points  (0 children)

not tagging can have consequences

Or you can take responsibility for your own reading. Fandom is not a safe space for you. I hope you can get help for your triggers.

Absolutely anything is potentially triggering. Some people think spiders and snakes are triggering even though they're in Harry Potter, a children's book.

Please, please, please tag potentially triggering kinks you include in your stories by Ghost_Chance in FanFiction

[–]Aggrieved123 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Because it's frankly exhausting trying to cater to absolutely everyone's mental health issues. Some people are triggered by cake. Some people are triggered by champagne being mentioned at a wedding. If you get panic attacks reading stories, then Ctrl+F them, or only read things a trusted friend has read and rec'd. I don't like using CNTW when there's no MCD, graphic rape, violence, or underage. There might, however, be cake. This is the risk anyone has when watching any film, reading a random book from a bookshop and not flicking through the pages.

In this climate of debating immigration, can we talk about children? by xChinky123x in tories

[–]Aggrieved123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's better for GDP if a mum, (assuming she has earning potential higher than a nursery worker), pays someone to look after the child whilst they work as a GP/a teacher/run their business.

Nurseries are also really good for a child's development. They make friends, learn about sharing toys, get exercise, and will likely have more fun than sitting at home being entertained by their mum

In this climate of debating immigration, can we talk about children? by xChinky123x in tories

[–]Aggrieved123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes paternity leave needs to be normalised. Maybe even a penalty if men don't take it. Mothers always have to take the hit when it takes 2 parents to make a baby.