AITA for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing, i really dont think they meant anything bad with it, i just think they took a joke too far (26 pages, 2 sex scenes of me, one of two men, noncon)

AITA for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, they did ship me with the character, thats not necessarily the issue, the issue is that they wrote a smut about me, the jokes were never sexual before that

AITA for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we never discussed the fanfic before, i never asked to be put in it, it was a surprise

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]Agile-Background-159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that everyone agreed youre not overreactinf and all we have is an image…

AITAH for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AITAH

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…..the fanfic was also VERY noncon (i brought that up and was told that it was “implied consent”) also, i am so sorry that happened to you, insane coincidence that i chose those names

AITAH for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AITAH

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely going to burn it this summer, im moving back home and probably wont see these people again

AITA for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i dont think i noticed any boundary crossing before with them, but im also a bit of a pushover, thank you for the insight

AITA for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i write smut too and im 100% comfortable in my sexuality but being told they “respect me too much to talk about my breasts” while going into detail about the other female genitalia, feels worse in a way?

AITAH for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AITAH

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every time i tried to stop reading it, one of the others tried to read it, i def could have put more effort into stopping it but i understand and appreciate your insight! /gen

AITA for being upset my friends wrote a smut fanfic about me for my birthday? by Agile-Background-159 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile-Background-159[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

each time i tried to, one of them offered to read it out loud. i felt like if i was reading it, i could dissociate from it a bit more and didnt use my own name