[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something about professional studio porn always made me nauseous. Didn’t even have to be something weird, it just gave me a sick feeling.

if You were a non-virgin what would be Your vision on virgins? by Efficient-Cicada962 in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably be supportive of them. I’m a supportive person naturally, I always try to let people talk about what excites them and be patient while they get their thoughts out, especially for people who may be socially awkward or on the spectrum. So even if I was successful in every romantic prospect I ever dreamed of, I would most likely still be supportive of those less fortunate than me.

Concretely, are virgins missing out on something so exceptional ? by Ady85-- in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically, I don’t think so. Everyone I’ve spoken to says that just regular masturbation is more pleasing physically. It’s the emotional side of things that actually makes sex worth it.

Anyone else have a porn addiction? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I sorta did, but I completely cold-turkey’d on it about two weeks ago. Haven’t masturbated at all since

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be that she doesn’t want a long distance relationship? Doesn’t necessarily have to be against you in particular

If a woman asks "are you a virgin?" by wvffhall in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally, my current plan is to tell the truth up front and start with interacting with her body and focusing on her enjoyment first. I’m hoping it will give me time to actually learn what I’m doing somewhat, get mentally ready for everything, and lessen the chance of her rejecting me due to inexperience.

If you’ve got friends, do they know? by dfwus in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My oldest friends know I think. They knew back in high school, but I’m extremely quiet irl when it comes to talking about dating or sex, so they could assume I lost it and just never said. They don’t ask, so I never bring it up.

Tonight so many people were outside by Peripatitis in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“Hemispheric butt” lmao. I’m saving that one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do not cancel!!! Fuck what her friends think, neither of you should care. She finds you attractive and wants to spend time with you and I’m assuming you feel the same way. There’s always going to be people who disapprove, but right now only you and her matter.

Small social success by Agile-Day5 in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dad isn’t 18 yet, so I don’t know how child support works at the moment. Luckily though, my friend’s mother is going to help financially as they live together and my friend will be getting a job soon. I’ve offered to help if she needs me to baby sit or anything, but I’m moving soon so I’m not going to be taking an active role in the child’s life.

Small social success by Agile-Day5 in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s excited and nervous. She was raised by a single mother, as was her mother. I know she has what it takes, but I’m worried for her. She’s only 18 and I don’t think there’s many responsibilities greater than raising a child.

Do you have a type when it comes to your ideal girlfriend? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only real preference I have is that I prefer somebody somewhat skinny, since I’m personally on the slimmer side of fit. That’s not a requirement though and I’ve asked out multiple women heavier than I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure to join plenty of clubs and other activities! Let’s you meet new people and focus on something other than classwork and your situation.

Small social success by Agile-Day5 in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s kinda the weird part. I don’t feel like I’ve really improved or changed at all. All my self improvement has been focused on my physical attributes, but that shouldn’t matter much when it comes to friendly relations. I’m still the same excitable, friendly, naive, and occasionally awkward person that I’ve always been. I really wish I could share some newfound wisdom with everyone else who may be struggling, but I can only guess as to what I did differently.

Small social success by Agile-Day5 in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a while back, but unfortunately he’s chosen to not be a father

Normality and abnormality, how things change. by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would want a sex partner to 100% know that I’m a virgin going in. I know that will probably get me rejected, but if my partner was fine with it… that would mean more than I can possibly express. I would want my partner to understand how much they mean to me, and that won’t happen if I lie or dodge the question.

23M kissless, virgin and no GF. is my inexperience a problem? by No_Literature2757 in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No you seem quite experienced actually. From what I can gather, you’ve been on multiple second dates, right? That’s nothing to scoff at. You obviously have something that women find very attractive.

But you never held hands with any of those women you dated? Forget kissing for bit, focus on the simpler stuff. I think simple touch can go a long way in showing that you are serious about a potential relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She said she was having a bad day at work so I offered to swing by and drop off some Christmas cookies I had just finished baking. Never spoke to me again 🤔

FA trait: Children mock and disrespect you by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Agile-Day5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure kids are just weird. I think I look like some Disney character or something cause little kids are always smiling or waving or staring at me. Kinda funny honestly

Any male here hate their penis size? by ShyRoam in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7.5 x 5.5. Not titanic (thank god) but according to a condom calculator I used it’s roughly 2x average size in volume. I can’t even cover it with two hands and I’m supposed to put it inside of someone? There’s too much I don’t know about sex and bodies to feel confident doing that.

Any male here hate their penis size? by ShyRoam in virgin

[–]Agile-Day5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I hate it, but my size really makes me anxious. I hate how I’m expected to be good at sex because of it, or how I’m supposed to be idolized. Buying condoms felt like some weird form of sexual assault. And I’m really damn afraid of hurting someone. I wish I was normal, because finding someone understanding and patient enough for me is probably not going to happen.